PUA Forum :: How to handle a pretend cold shoulder?

In one of my classes at school I sit next to one of my good friends and an attractive girl who is also good friends with my buddy. I made a joke the other day about the girl to my friend (kind of a neg, but it wasn't really planned out) and she started the pretend like she couldn't hear me (you know, I would talk and she would say to my friend "do you hear something"). Well my buddy started playing along and now neither of them talked to me in class the past couple of days.

My question is "If they both continue to do this on Monday, how can I turn it against the girl and possibly attract her some more?"

Author:	AlexNewton [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:	How to handle a pretend cold shoulder?
In one of my classes at school I sit next to one of my good friends and an attractive girl who is also good friends with my buddy. I made a joke the other day about the girl to my friend (kind of a neg, but it wasn't really planned out) and she started the pretend like she couldn't hear me (you know, I would talk and she would say to my friend "do you hear something"). Well my buddy started playing along and now neither of them talked to me in class the past couple of days. My question is "If they both continue to do this on Monday, how can I turn it against the girl and possibly attract her some more?"

Author:	DesertSun [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 2:01 am ]
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Quote: In one of my classes at school I sit next to one of my good friends and an attractive girl who is also good friends with my buddy. I made a joke the other day about the girl to my friend (kind of a neg, but it wasn't really planned out) and she started the pretend like she couldn't hear me (you know, I would talk and she would say to my friend "do you hear something"). Well my buddy started playing along and now neither of them talked to me in class the past couple of days. My question is "If they both continue to do this on Monday, how can I turn it against the girl and possibly attract her some more?" I don't know if it necessarily means she's attracted to you mate. Schoolgirls minds aren't the same as a woman's mind. She might actually be a little pissed off with you. Although, it does sound like your friend fancies her, that's why he's playing along with her. If your friend is a girl, ignore what I just said!

Author:	TattooToast [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 7:48 am ]
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It's simple...go to her and ask if she got offended. If yes,then say "Look I was just playing around and did not mean to offend u in any way. Now that I know ur boundaries I promise I will not cross it again. Im sorry." Then throw an opener "hey since we're already talking,I'd like to ask for ur opinion on something........" If she says no,say IN A FUN MANNER "U punk,u were playing me this whole time,you little shit! I cant even talk to u right now!!! (turn away,sit,and occasionally turn her way as if out of coincidence meeting her eyes,smile,roll ur eyes and wave ur head from side to side)" It works magic,I usually find myself needing to say this quite alot cuz I say wats on my mind no matter wat......UNLESS im actually gaming the girl. Hope that helps, good luck and best wishes!!!!

Author:	Prince_ [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 8:20 am ]
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you can be a pussy and apologize anytime. id try something else first like ingnoring them and talking to other people in the class. the more you care about them playing this game the longer they will ingnore you.

Author:	TattooToast [ Sun Feb 28, 2010 2:52 am ]
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Quote: you can be a pussy and apologize anytime. id try something else first like ingnoring them and talking to other people in the class. the more you care about them playing this game the longer they will ingnore you. Prince_how about u go back to watching ur winter olympics,u offensive AFC. For a first impression,it looks like u have nothing else to offer to this form but to insult. With that said FUCK YOU! Now,being a PUA means being a gentleman,but not the nice guy that everyone steps on. Neg if ur insulted,say "FUCK YOU" to those who deserve it,and apologize wen appropriate. Now if she keeps acting stupid.....then she's a full raised bitch. "A gentleman will open the door for a lady,but won't for a bitch. But he will smile as the door closes on her. A nice guy will open doors for all the bitches in the world and get no thank-yous and will still do it" - Mystery

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Author:	Prince_ [ Sun Feb 28, 2010 10:18 am ]
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calm down homie, i bet you feel tough talking shit on the internet. if he's in highschool then apologizing will make you seem like the pushover nice guy. these are girls not women. if your a few years into college then try this ^ guys idea.

Author:	Ezo [ Sun Feb 28, 2010 1:50 pm ]
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Girls in school are seldom as socially trained as a real woman. They practice their social skills as well. You dont use a puppy to hunt down a wolf. What makes you think that she is interested? She is in your class and she might actually just talk to you for that reason. I think that your lame "neg" actually made her angry. Negging too much is what immature or unconfident guys do when they try to hide that they are in fact nervous. Stay away from negs as much as you can.

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