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| Author: | RuleBreaker [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 1:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Last minute resistance...AFTER an F close? Input sought... |
Here's the situation. I met this girl at a bar last night and got her back to her place for all night, morning, and this afternoon F-close. Some quick details on the pickup, she has the body of an 8 but is clearly self-conscious of her 6ish face, and she's a ball buster. I can tell she gets hit on by average dudes a lot, so I run solid game, teasing her a lot, telling her she would look great in a different shirt that fit her body type better, never staying to talk to her by the pool table for more than 2-3 minutes at a time, never complimenting her, all the general shit you do to a ball buster. I'm already the alpha guy at this point, so it's not a difficult process. Here's the interesting point. So she's admitted by the 3rd time we had sex that I've given her more orgasms in one night than she's had in her life. I learned some stuff about her through the night that clearly show she is damaged goods, I don't know if it's mommy/daddy issues or what. I started to notice when at one point, after we finished having sex, she started to freak and say I was going to just leave, and she figured I was like that, got really aggressive and mad, and I mean out of NOWHERE. She says she doesn't know why she is acting that way, and it doesn't make sense. I start to leave, and tell her "You know, communicating with me about this would be much better than letting this situation end awkward," and she comes back around. I do all the right things, distract her from any problems, and she's all over me. Well after I feel like I've done a pretty damn good job or getting her hers, I feel like it's time for me to get mine. It's a shit ton of work for me to get off from sex, so I ask if she'd do me a solid and return the favor. She starts playing around with me, never really making an effort to go for the gold, if you catch my drift, and keeps completely stopping, or just goes from working on it to rubbing my stomach lightly and teasing me. This happens (no bullshit) like 5 times in 45 min. and then she just stops again. I ask if something is wrong, and she says no, so I'm like, whats the problem? She says there isn't one. Then out of nowhere she says I should probably leave, that she's keeping me from getting stuff done by hanging out with her all day. She starts moping around the house cleaning here and there, pausing in the bathroom with her head down, sitting on the couch looking weird. I put my clothes on, tell her thanks for the interesting night and evening, and that if she ever figures out what is going on with herself to give me a call. She says nothing is wrong, I kiss her on the cheek, and she still looks kind of depressed as I leave. So my questions are as follows: 1.) What do you guys suggest to do when a girl doesn't want to return the favor in my situation? (minor freeze out didn't work, neither did asking if anything was amiss) 2.) Besides bi polar issues, what do you think might have set this chick off? I've honestly never run into anything like this before and was completely taken aback. 3.) I'm not really concerned about dating her or laying her again, but just to get some insight, other than waiting for her to call me and letting her know that the situation was awkward because of her, how might you guys play into getting another lay? Thanks for any insight guys. |
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| Author: | samex [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 2:30 am ] |
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If you don't plan on dating this girl I highly doubt digging any further to try and find out whats wrong, because I guarantee you, you'll find out something you didn't want to know... just take it for what it is, their will be situations like this where its just not worth figuring out why. .... since I know you wanted me to answer your questions and your wandering why I am giving you this response here's a little history from this one girl I messed around with back in the day... Like your girl, 8 body, 6ish face... Anyways, same night bringing her back to my place, we fool around but never get to sex. Second night out, back at my place, we fool around, same thing no sex...I question it because im an idiot...after about 30mins she breaks downs and tell me for the past 3 years of her life, she has been having dreams of her dad molesting her as a child...wait its get's better...She doesn't know if these dreams are real or not, and she's been to a therapist where he thought they actually happened. So it turned out the reason she never wanted sex, was because ever time I would touch her(down there), these thoughts would come running in and shed start shaking... I let her go, sorry but I can't solve that. Anyways, hope this helps |
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| Author: | Smartbomb [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 4:31 am ] |
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Yah I was going to guess childhood sexual trauma even before reading the first response. Girls like that are radioactive. They either are super sexual and love it (but have other major issues like drink/drugs) or the sex freaks them out. Either way these girls have major issues. |
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| Author: | RuleBreaker [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 10:49 pm ] |
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Thanks for the responses so far guys. Yeah I know she is damaged goods of some kind, the confusing thing to me was that we DID have sex, many times, and she enjoyed it, but when it came time for me to get off was when she freaked. Maybe it was some sort of childhood trauma, but what a very select time to start letting it affect you, ya know? I'd still be interested in seeing other opinions of how to handle the situation. The PUA in my head is interested in knowing what other options might have been available to me. And yeah, definitely not going back there or anything like that. I've dated enough crazies in my life, I can't do that to myself again. |
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| Author: | El Frank [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 1:48 pm ] |
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Quote: Thanks for the responses so far guys.
Well case closed but still feel like sharing :pYeah I know she is damaged goods of some kind, the confusing thing to me was that we DID have sex, many times, and she enjoyed it, but when it came time for me to get off was when she freaked. Maybe it was some sort of childhood trauma, but what a very select time to start letting it affect you, ya know? I'd still be interested in seeing other opinions of how to handle the situation. The PUA in my head is interested in knowing what other options might have been available to me. And yeah, definitely not going back there or anything like that. I've dated enough crazies in my life, I can't do that to myself again. When I meet and get with damaged goods girl, i generally shower them with compliment in a ridiculous way. Think of it as when girls love you so much they fake orgasms. Boys can do that too :p But yeh then again, let someone else deal with that... Natural selection exists for a reason :p |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 5:44 pm ] |
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I had sex with a 9 once and after were done (amazing sex bdw) she tells me "Wow that was SO amazing, I imagined i was a guy while you were inside me" |
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| Author: | RuleBreaker [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 8:54 pm ] |
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I wouldn't even begin to know how to take that if a chick said it to me, lol. |
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