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The appropriate GUY'S response to this statement is something along the lines of "Huh? Listen - if you were fat, I wouldn't be talking to you."
Right on, perfect line 
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| Author: | vagfan [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 10:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When she says: "I'm fat." |
Hi. New here, first post. My problem is that I never really know what to do when a girl makes a self-depreciating statement like "I'm so fat." or "My friend is nicer looking than me." or whatever. I know that a lot of the time, consciously or not, they're looking for approval, ("fishing for compliments") but I really get the impression that suddenly just catering to their ego would be a weak move and predictable chump behaviour. This happens a lot, but there's one specific girl I've seen a couple of times who always moans about being fat, even though she isn't at all. I usually just wave it aside with a dismissive "Ah... don't be silly!" before quickly changing the subject, but it keeps coming up. I guess I could be really cocky and just go "Yup!" and shrug, but I think that's a little too overboard and not really appropriate when I haven't known a girl very long. Thoughts? |
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| Author: | chazman0426 [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:17 pm ] |
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I've been there before. Personally, to me it's unattractive when women do that too much. Once in a while is normal esp if they are hot. I'd just say this: AFC would say "Oh stop saying that, your one of the best looking girls I know" PUA would say "I guess your right, you seem so convinced that your fat so you must be" and just leave it at that. |
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| Author: | Smartbomb [ Thu Feb 25, 2010 4:43 am ] |
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Immature/insecure girls with low self esteem do this with each other as a way of figuring out social pecking order. "OMG I'm so fat!" "No, you're not fat, you look great!" "Really?? You mean that?" "Oh, yah - your ass looks amazing in those jeans... You know who's fat? See XXXX over there? She's FAT." "Yah, you're right - she's a beast. HAHAHAHA" The appropriate GUY'S response to this statement is something along the lines of "Huh? Listen - if you were fat, I wouldn't be talking to you." And if she *IS* fat, what are you doing talking to her?? |
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| Author: | Alsex [ Thu Feb 25, 2010 9:27 am ] |
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The appropriate GUY'S response to this statement is something along the lines of "Huh? Listen - if you were fat, I wouldn't be talking to you."
Right on, perfect line
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| Author: | The Omega Man [ Thu Feb 25, 2010 2:36 pm ] |
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The appropriate GUY'S response to this statement is something along the lines of "Huh? Listen - if you were fat, I wouldn't be talking to you."
Right on, perfect line |
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| Author: | Alsex [ Thu Feb 25, 2010 3:55 pm ] |
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The appropriate GUY'S response to this statement is something along the lines of "Huh? Listen - if you were fat, I wouldn't be talking to you."
Right on, perfect line You have to say it jokingly |
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| Author: | Bastynasterd [ Thu Feb 25, 2010 6:00 pm ] |
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I'd probably say: "Yeah, not everybody can be as perfect as me" |
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| Author: | El Frank [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 12:44 pm ] |
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I'd probably toy with her for half a dozen of seconds (plz don't do the math...) Something like HB : "I'm so fat" You : "... Oh my... OH MY GOD... you ARE fat !!! I have to... I have to go now..." *turn around and start walking* HB : *looking anywhere from surprised to outraged to whatever* You : *turning back* (two choices depending on how offended she is) 1) (if she's laughing) Hey there ! It's a pleasure to meet you ! My name is ...., You look great ! And not even remotely fat ! What's your secret !? 2) (If she's offended) Ahahaha (be genuinely laughing) look at your face :p, but seriously you look gorgeous. The thing is, if she has LSE, you'll have to reassure her and let her know you were being a dick on purpose but that you aren't normally that mean. If she is a super hot babe trying to make you jump through the hoop, demonstrate higher value by playing hard and punishing her for trying to get compliments :p Those are the rules of thumb. |
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| Author: | UK Buddha [ Sat Feb 27, 2010 12:47 pm ] |
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When a girl says this, she may be shit testing us... Respond with: Me - "You're not fat, you've got nice curves and every guy here would rather go for a girl with curves than a stick insect." Her - "You really think so?" I'll grab a friend quickly and ask his opinion, he'll agree with me. Her - "Wow, I never realised guys thought like that." or Her - "Nah, I still don't believe you." If she gives you response one, great. If she gives you response two then answer with what Smartbomb said: "Huh? Listen - if you were fat, I wouldn't be talking to you." or something along those lines. |
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