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| Author: | 0rion [ Mon Feb 22, 2010 1:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | TIME SENSITIVE-What to do when you get a flaky phone number? |
Here is the situation I meet the target spent 25-30 min moving from A2 to A3 and finally into C1 I was running the cube gambit with the target. I felt that I was spending to much time on one target and should break off and work the room. Picked up a few other numbers. My wing was getting not having an on night and wanted to leave. I went for he phone number from the target I just called and the call went to voice mail not knowing what to do I didn’t leave a message what to do next? |
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| Author: | Drizzy [ Mon Feb 22, 2010 4:59 am ] |
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.. That's not a flake yet, you didn't leave a VM. I've had a bunch of flakey chicks as of late, and I've been able to turn a couple of them around. I'd say in your case, call her again (definitely leave a quick VM this time). If she doesn't get back to you again, I'd say either a clever text or start calling some of the other numbers you got... I just met a chick on Thursday, called her on saturday afternoon, left a VM, and didn't hear back from her. So I shot her a witty text today about something we had been talking about. She got back to me apologizing for not calling back, saying it was a hectic weekend and said she will call me tomorrow. So, if you can pique her interest, perhaps by bringing up something from the cube routine you ran, maybe that will get a response? |
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| Author: | 0rion [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 8:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Great resources on flaking and how to avoid it. |
PUA Savory talks about how to avoid flaking: http://www.seductiontuition.com/nick-savoy/pua-flaking/ |
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| Author: | RuleBreaker [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 8:42 pm ] |
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Gambler says to avoid flaking by taking care of it before it happens. While I don't think she has flaked on you yet (flaking usually involves setting up plans and then having them bail on you), this is what he recommends: Say something to the girl about flaking in your early interaction, but do not imply that she will do it. You might say "Yeah, the older I get the more 'acquaintances' I find in my life. You know, people who act like a great friend when you're around, but when you try to make plans with them, they always find an excuse to flake on you. Don't you hate when those are the only people you seem to meet anymore?" or "I really don't have room in my life for those kinds of people anymore." This way you're implying that you have higher standards than to allow flakes into your social sphere. You also project confidence by willing to go without such people and only let quality people into your life. |
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