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| Author: | DonPua [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 2:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dilemma |
Guys, I have a dilemma here and I need someone very skilled in pickup to answer this question. So yesterday night I went out. I was dancing with my wingman not thinking about pickup and really having fun. Suddenly, out of the blue this 45-50 year old woman comes dance with me and rubs her ass against me. I was completely shocked and foremost disgusted. I was ashamed to be seen with her. So I didn't dance with her and just ignored her. But she kept pushing. After a while she started dancing with my friend. So I was happy and started dancing again. But then she left my friend and came dancing with me again so I stopped dancing again and ignored her. Now, from the PUA point of view whenever a woman approaches you, you are getting preselected and if women see that they get more attracted to you. What I don't know though is whether you can call this preselection too. If a normal girl of my age comes dance with me, I normally dance with her even if I don't like her because I know that preselection will make me more interesting for the other females. But what happens in this case ? If I would have danced with her what would the other females think of me ? Would they think I am a dirty asshole that fucks everything in his way and have no standards ? Or would they consider me more attractive ? An extra thing that happened is that afterwards she came back with a very good looking friend of her. They both started dancing with in our group. The old one was really into it, the other one looked a bit shy or she felt awkward to dance with 2 random strangers. Anyway, her friend was more or less our age and she was very good looking. Though initially my mindset wasn't tuned on pickup, I was interested in trying to pick her up but because I totally ignored her old friend before it just felt wrong to do it. I also couldn't start dancing with the good looking friend because whenever I started to dance slightly, the old woman came dance very close to me. She was such a pain in the ass. So now, a day later I am thinking of the situation and trying to understand what I should have done. Honestly, I have no idea at all. I have no idea of what would be the right way to deal with this situation. I hope you more experienced guys can help me with this because this was the first time ever I had to deal with this during night game. Thanks in advance for all the feedback that may follow. |
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