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Author:  Willy [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 6:55 am ]
Post subject:  Need some help with this one ! (idiot)

Hey guys,


Little embarrased with this i was so stupid. Anyways, ive chat to this girl on phone/facebook for a few weeks prior to meeting her and this Friday was the first time i met her.

Now it was her idea to come over to my place and " watch a movie " Even after i suggested to do a normal sorta date idea she said she just wanted to watch a movie at mine. So i agreed.. Now, i like this girl and i would see her a GF material so i wanted to not rush it.

Friday night she comes around sits straight on my bed. I put a movie on and i sit in the chair near the bed, didnt really watch the movie just talked a lot with some light kino, nudging, pinching grabing hands playing games. Now thing is she asked for me to change movie which resorted in me having to get outa the chair, so i did and changed the movie as to i notice she has moved the chair away so i have no chance but to sit on the bed. Cut it short had massive eye contact prob 3-4 mins just holding it mimicking her gestures beening playful... i believe she had her panties on my bed side table also in plain sight ( coz we played dress up army earlier on in night, with her wearing my cams, yes im in the army. ) But i just didnt pull the trigger coz i was thinking if i were to have sex with her first time meeting her i would ruin the chance of her beening a GF as it might be all weird afterwards, so i didnt end up doing anything (idiot) and she went home few hours later.

Now ive noticed i went out saturday night its kinda changed not as much kino or less responsive to it. Ive also been refered to are we bff's now ? and so on. So i know im in the friends zone. Is this a lost cause should i try out for a freeze out, coz we talk constaint over txt and phone.

So so dumb. I usually would of just gone for it but this one was different.

Author:  VanHaven [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:11 am ]
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Did you make anykind of move on her? Kiss her even?

Author:  Willy [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:30 am ]
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nope

Author:  Willy [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:50 am ]
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She is also now trying to play jealously or some shit testing me to see if i reply to her status updates on facebook saying " i need a boy to practice my new routine " and so on

Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 8:54 am ]
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Dude. She obviously wanted to lay you good mainly because "YOU'RE A MAN IN UNIFORM"..

Meaning that you are in a "power position".. so take charge.

Invite her back over to your place, and tell her that you feel bad for ignoring her
the other night.. and since you ignored her, you are willing to let her give you a
massage to make up for it..

Yes, you read that right... LET HER GIVE YOU A MASSAGE...

This should fire up the "chemistry" as people like to say. Tell her that she needs to
come over NOW so you two can watch this NEW movie that you got from a friend
that is still in theaters. If she asks what it is, just tell her she'll find out when she
comes over.

If she comes up with excuses like, "tell me or I'm not coming over".. then just
say, "aight, I'll call this other girl that I met" then wait for a few minutes, if she
DOES NOT say anything along the lines of, "ok I'm on my way" just HANG UP..
she should call you back, but if she don't, write her off... But Guess What...

She will get back in touch with you to "trick" you into telling her what happened
that night with you and the other girl. Just tell her that you don't kiss and tell, but
you will tell her this... "it was an eventful night..." and say no more about that night.

Remember... girls want what they think they can't have, and they like it when a
man is mysterious, and takes charge and also when he don't "kiss and tell."
You should get this girl soon if she's not some chick just out to get laid by whoever
will give it to her.

Author:  Willy [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 9:10 am ]
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Cheers mate good advice ! With her status updates on facebook i played it cool and made it out to be no biggy if she was ganna see another guy.

She has also seen all the valentine stuff i have got from other females on my page with in return her replying in a jealous sorta way so it has kinda backfired on her.

Result - She has txted me asking me if i wanna hang out tonight.

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