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Author:  The_Enforcer [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 3:38 am ]
Post subject:  How many PUA's and mPUAs out there have gone it alone?
From start to finish. I don't mean without material, books, e-books, forums etc.... but without a wingman/sarging buddy/instructor. My group of friends (who mean more to me than brothers) have no interest in this kind of stuff and I haven't been able to find a wing. So I was just wondering, how many of you SUCESSFUL PUA's out there just started going out sarging alone and learnt through trial and error all on your own?

I am thinking I will need at least a bootcamp to get me started and that (finanically) is a couple of months away at the moment. Pleas eshare your experiences, I would love to get some inspirational stories to read and encourage me that there are other guys going through the same thing.
Author:  F_I_X_E_R [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How many PUA's and mPUAs out there have gone it alone?
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From start to finish. I don't mean without material, books, e-books, forums etc.... but without a wingman/sarging buddy/instructor. My group of friends (who mean more to me than brothers) have no interest in this kind of stuff and I haven't been able to find a wing. So I was just wondering, how many of you SUCESSFUL PUA's out there just started going out sarging alone and learnt through trial and error all on your own?

I am thinking I will need at least a bootcamp to get me started and that (finanically) is a couple of months away at the moment. Pleas eshare your experiences, I would love to get some inspirational stories to read and encourage me that there are other guys going through the same thing.
I've been in the game for 8 months now. Firstly when I discovered pick up, I was really excited and started reading as much PUA materials as I could. Then I changed the most I believe.

I told some people about what I'm doing... They laughed... They simply do not believe in pick up, as if I'm asking them to believe in a religion. They are too proud to admit they need serious help in that area. Fucking AFCs. I don't even hang out with them now.

So I'm walking the path of the PUA all alone, having the materials on my PC as guidance and the occasional advice from forum PUAs. I got laid 4 times thanks to my new knowledge. Altough I still feel my game is weak.

Not that I'm afraid but I hate rejection. I really do. Especially if it's some stupid chick that does not deserve me either way, makes me mad... So I plan things well, aim 10 times, shoot only once.

I write all my notes on a blank workbook from school. There I write things down in the way I comprehend things .

I now know, which are the newest and greatest pickup materials to learn from, and I "study" as much as I can. I have the ultimate natural game, that is an alternative to a bootcamp.

My favorite pick up artists that I learn from are: Gambler, AFC Adam, Mystery

They seem to offer all the information I'll ever need.

I now seek to improve even more, get better results. As you see I'm a "self-taught" pick up artist if I may call myself such.
Author:  The-candy [ Mon Feb 15, 2010 2:41 am ]
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Yeah you dont need the bootcamp , you really got nothing to lose by just getting out there and getting rejected a few times , its a science and you gotta get the right formula bro , so if it dosent work try to find out why and change that detail

anyway i find it easyer to go alone that way you can be who you really want to and get rejected without anyone to laugh at you
Author:  The_Enforcer [ Mon Feb 15, 2010 6:12 am ]
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Yeah you dont need the bootcamp , you really got nothing to lose by just getting out there and getting rejected a few times , its a science and you gotta get the right formula bro , so if it dosent work try to find out why and change that detail

anyway i find it easyer to go alone that way you can be who you really want to and get rejected without anyone to laugh at you
I understand what you are saying but alone doesn't necessarily equal success. I want a bootcamp to put the fundamentals into place and then I can calibrate by myself. At least that is the plan thus far. I don't know, I'm a bit of a pussy, I guess I want to do a bootcamp so that I get pushed harder than I would on my own.
Author:  Smartbomb [ Mon Feb 15, 2010 2:30 pm ]
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If you're starting to learn pick up in rippin' clubs, that's the hardest place. It's like starting to learn baseball at the World Series. Find a venue where the stakes aren't so high and the tension isn't jacked up so high by the loud music, lights, and alcohol. A shopping mall, large popular bookstore, grocery store, etc. are all good places to practice pickup in an area where you can think and girls aren't necessarily expecting to get hit on so their bitch-defenses are not as high. Granted, I have just started but that's where I have gone and it's working for me (for the most part...)
Author:  The_Enforcer [ Mon Feb 15, 2010 2:38 pm ]
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If you're starting to learn pick up in rippin' clubs, that's the hardest place. It's like starting to learn baseball at the World Series. Find a venue where the stakes aren't so high and the tension isn't jacked up so high by the loud music, lights, and alcohol. A shopping mall, large popular bookstore, grocery store, etc. are all good places to practice pickup in an area where you can think and girls aren't necessarily expecting to get hit on so their bitch-defenses are not as high. Granted, I have just started but that's where I have gone and it's working for me (for the most part...)
Gotta jump in the deep end son. I plan on taking a bit of advice from Mystery and pushing every set 20% further than seems sensible - its how you learn. If I am going to blow out multiple sets a night I'd rather do it in a club.
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