PUA Forum :: Failed shit test; how would you have done it?

I would have gone with something along the lines of:

"Whoa whoa, slow down there, who said anything about a relationship?. But if your not ready to hang out and have a good time I guess I am talking to the wrong person

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But I'm still new to this so I could be waaaay wrong.

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But I'm still new to this so I could be waaaay wrong.

Ok, what would you say if you actually believed that she wasn't really interested in a relationship (which may very well be the case)?

This didn't happen to me, but a friend of mine i'm talking with on MSN right now.

He's talking to this girl that likes him a lot. i think he kinda likes her too. So the girl says to him that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. She's been single for a good while too btw if that means anything.

So is that a shit test? How would you respond to it? I think he already failed miserably by saying that "Well then i respect your decision"

Do you think that her statement should have really been taken at face value, and she really doesn't want the relationship??

Author:	Weatherman [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 2:36 am ]
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This didn't happen to me, but a friend of mine i'm talking with on MSN right now. He's talking to this girl that likes him a lot. i think he kinda likes her too. So the girl says to him that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. She's been single for a good while too btw if that means anything. So is that a shit test? How would you respond to it? I think he already failed miserably by saying that "Well then i respect your decision" Do you think that her statement should have really been taken at face value, and she really doesn't want the relationship??

Author:	The_Enforcer [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 3:21 am ]
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I would have gone with something along the lines of: "Whoa whoa, slow down there, who said anything about a relationship?. But if your not ready to hang out and have a good time I guess I am talking to the wrong person ". But I'm still new to this so I could be waaaay wrong.

Author:	newsreporter guy [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 3:28 am ]
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Like with any shit test there are many ways to deal with them. I usually ignor them for awhile by talking on and forgetting about them. Chances are she will to and then u disarmed her! Sometimes she will remember and then u can just give something off like SHE is trying to rush into things.

Author:	Weatherman [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 4:21 am ]
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Quote: I would have gone with something along the lines of: "Whoa whoa, slow down there, who said anything about a relationship?. But if your not ready to hang out and have a good time I guess I am talking to the wrong person ". But I'm still new to this so I could be waaaay wrong. Ok, what would you say if you actually believed that she wasn't really interested in a relationship (which may very well be the case)?

Author:	The_Enforcer [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 4:40 am ]
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Quote: Quote: I would have gone with something along the lines of: "Whoa whoa, slow down there, who said anything about a relationship?. But if your not ready to hang out and have a good time I guess I am talking to the wrong person ". But I'm still new to this so I could be waaaay wrong. Ok, what would you say if you actually believed that she wasn't really interested in a relationship (which may very well be the case)? I don't think it matter, I think what matters is that you pass the shit test and in the process throw a little disqualifier. It's a fine line between winning and LJBF, but what she thinks at this point is not important. Whether she wants a relationship NOW or not, if your friend captures her imagination she will forget that very quickly. That being said I would love to be corrected on this by someone more knowledgable than myself.

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Author:	CroPua [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 1:13 pm ]
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"When the right guy comes you will change your mind in a split of second, but on the other side its nothing bad in being single like lotz of ppl think" I would answer something like that... You cant be wrong because you agree with both (being single or in relationship) . It is very not defined answer if she wanted any answer

Author:	Fin [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Failed shit test; how would you have done it?
Quote: This didn't happen to me, but a friend of mine i'm talking with on MSN right now. He's talking to this girl that likes him a lot. i think he kinda likes her too. So the girl says to him that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. She's been single for a good while too btw if that means anything. So is that a shit test? How would you respond to it? I think he already failed miserably by saying that "Well then i respect your decision" Do you think that her statement should have really been taken at face value, and she really doesn't want the relationship?? If she doesn't want a relationship then you respect that. It wasn't a shit test, it's not trying to directly disqaulify him. If it turns out he can change her mind so be it. But until then it doesn't really matter.

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