PUA Forum :: Getting IOI's, but Need some advice

Seems you were doing something right when you weren't buying into her during class. The apology is rather suspect, so take that into account of her psychological framework. A push-pull game is probably what you're going to need.

Keep your interaction with her concise for a period of time. Or, better, fragment your time with her; for example, maybe only really talk with her once a week or so. It seems she's looking to get your attention due to you not bending over backwards for her. Being that you identified her as a HB10, it's presumable that she can't understand this and wants your validation.

Dude, just carry on doing what you're doing. All these guys made good points but just be yourself, there was obviously somethign that attracted her to you in the first place, the only thing that's left is for you to just drop it and see if she wants to do something with just the two of you. If she says yes then...well...you're in if it's a no then don't waste your time and dont even bother chasing after her.

Remember you're the catch not her, everyone is doing the same thing by going after her but if you dont then you'll stand out and she'll come to you.

you said theres 185 people in your lecture. why not sit next to and strike up a conversations with other girls ?

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you said theres 185 people in your lecture. why not sit next to and strike up a conversations with other girls ?

Yeah, I would do this. It would make the target understand that you have options as-well.

Looks like I got a nice shot at this, going to roll with a few friends, bring some patron and be the life of that fucking party. That's my game plan.

Author:	Dizzler [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:06 pm ]
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I'm really busy with school and catching up on PUA material and juggling school-work is tough. So I need a crash course for handling this HB10. I know I got this, I just need a few tips. Here is the situation: Monday in class I'm sitting down when she comes and sits next to me (this is 185 person lecture). I purposefully don't notice her for a moment and continue reviewing lecture material when I strike up a conversation and develop a good deal of rapport, she begins working on a paper and I go back to my work when she apologizes for not talking, interesting..I acted like it didn't bother me the slightest bit. The professor was very funny, and we laughed alot together at him through out class. At the end of class she waited for me at the end of the row while i put my jacket on and said goodbye. We had been so busy joking and vibeing we never introduced ourselves. So the following class ( first monday, second wednesdsay) I get there early and sit down. The class fills up and about a minute before it starts she jumps over people (avoiding open seats) to sit next to me. IOI! and we talk again throughout class, she tells me a few stories. At the end of class we are walking out talking when I believe I get my first SHIT test. She runs up to some guy (not looking back) and hugs him (not BF) I peace out. I believe I passed this test. Then this evening she facebooked me, which I'll consider an IOI. I've noted a few different IOI's from this girl. We have class Friday and I haven't numbered closed, however this isn't an obstacle, clearly she is interested. I'm afraid to fall into LJBF with this one, she has alot of guys interested in her, she is a bit ouf my league, i need yalls help I've been running this thing on my goodlooks and southern conversationalist skills, I need to start gaming. But I don't know where to start. Disqualify myself, neg her, then number close is about as good as my routine gets. Advice? tips? crash Course?

Author:	Granit [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:24 pm ]
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Many things to go on here, but the basics is pretty straight forward. Don't let yourself start to supplicate to her. I sounds like she is an 'attention' required person that likes to have people spend time and effort on her because she can. Don't be the same as everybody else and do just what she asks. I'll run back into old school material and say be Cocky Funny. Not just cocky, thats arrogance, and not just funny, Dancing Monkey syndrome. Be who you are but push things forward, get her out of the classroom and reacting to you. Lead her ... If she ever asks 'What do you want to do?' Always have an answer, and never never say "I don't know, what do you want to do ..." PS yeah, subconscious shit test passed with that Hug. But to be simple, always be confident and don't seek her approval.

Author:	Dizzler [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:40 pm ]
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Yeah. It's clear she is interested, I thought it would be a good idea to disqualify myself in the beginning of class (using cocky funny) and maybe throw a neg her way. Then a little bit later into class throw a compliment and at the end get her number. I'm kind of in a predicament though, because she was telling me about a party she was going to on Saturday night and I can't call her on the same day I closed. So it would probably be best to call her Sunday and try and arrange a get together during the week. However I'm wondering if after I number close, and call her and ask her out, will class be awkward? Because I see her Monday, Wednesdays and Fridays do you think it would be better to get something set up in person? This is where I get confused with College Class Game. I know I can get a date, I just don't know how to go about getting it, and once I'm on it yes I need to show her I'm not going to bow down to her. I can't not pay though, that's sloppy, I'll have to convey to her through out our conversation that I'm secure and confident, and she si lucky to have me around.

Author:	Granit [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:51 pm ]
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There are no hard and fast RULES, what they are is guide lines until you understand the base concepts. The other night I was chatting with a girl online and said "give me your number my fingers are getting tired" ... time bridging works but if there is something important like a party, or club, or venue just close on the concept that you need contact info to coordinate how/when to meet up at the event. And it paves the road to make it happen right away. Also be careful with negs as they can go the wrong way on you really quickly. If you are worried about the class interaction, you have to ask yourself is she better as a classmate? friend? FB/GF? Its your choice, take control and know what you want BEFORE you ask for it.

Author:	Ripplemagne [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:14 pm ]
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Seems you were doing something right when you weren't buying into her during class. The apology is rather suspect, so take that into account of her psychological framework. A push-pull game is probably what you're going to need. Keep your interaction with her concise for a period of time. Or, better, fragment your time with her; for example, maybe only really talk with her once a week or so. It seems she's looking to get your attention due to you not bending over backwards for her. Being that you identified her as a HB10, it's presumable that she can't understand this and wants your validation.

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Author:	Dizzler [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:44 pm ]
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Quote: Seems you were doing something right when you weren't buying into her during class. The apology is rather suspect, so take that into account of her psychological framework. A push-pull game is probably what you're going to need. Keep your interaction with her concise for a period of time. Or, better, fragment your time with her; for example, maybe only really talk with her once a week or so. It seems she's looking to get your attention due to you not bending over backwards for her. Being that you identified her as a HB10, it's presumable that she can't understand this and wants your validation. Yes, Yes. Yesterday in class if when I payed attention to the lesson she would do thinks to re-spark conversation. She asked my opinion of the professor, told me a story and made comments to herself that were intended to get my response. I beginning to see this situation in better light. I think my best route would not be to number close, but to disqualify myself in class, pay attention to the lesson, throw a compliment and pretend like I'm not interested. Essentially a push-pull I'll do over Friday class, and Monday class, then Wednesday show a bit more interest and number close her.

Author:	Profumo [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:48 pm ]
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Dude, just carry on doing what you're doing. All these guys made good points but just be yourself, there was obviously somethign that attracted her to you in the first place, the only thing that's left is for you to just drop it and see if she wants to do something with just the two of you. If she says yes then...well...you're in if it's a no then don't waste your time and dont even bother chasing after her. Remember you're the catch not her, everyone is doing the same thing by going after her but if you dont then you'll stand out and she'll come to you.

Author:	Ripplemagne [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:50 pm ]
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Then you answered your own question, bud.

Author:	Dizzler [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:56 pm ]
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Quote: Dude, just carry on doing what you're doing. All these guys made good points but just be yourself, there was obviously somethign that attracted her to you in the first place, the only thing that's left is for you to just drop it and see if she wants to do something with just the two of you. If she says yes then...well...you're in if it's a no then don't waste your time and dont even bother chasing after her. Remember you're the catch not her, everyone is doing the same thing by going after her but if you dont then you'll stand out and she'll come to you. I'm getting alot of different opinions here. I understand what you're saying about being yourself and initial attraction. I was blessed with good looks and I have a nice sense of style, but for an HB10 guys like me are plentiful and though my looks may have generated initial attraction to really close this one down I'll need to take the power and get her chasing me, yes I am the catch, but I got to make her believe it and throw her line. I have a feeling if I just go balls out and ask her out it won't get me anywhere, how many times do you think guys do that to her? I got to set myself apart from those AFC's.

Author:	SeeCarios [ Fri Feb 12, 2010 5:28 am ]
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you said theres 185 people in your lecture. why not sit next to and strike up a conversations with other girls ?

Author:	PUA_CHRIS [ Fri Feb 12, 2010 5:49 am ]
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Quote: you said theres 185 people in your lecture. why not sit next to and strike up a conversations with other girls ? Yeah, I would do this. It would make the target understand that you have options as-well.

Author:	buffs2012 [ Fri Feb 12, 2010 5:54 am ]
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Quote: Quote: you said theres 185 people in your lecture. why not sit next to and strike up a conversations with other girls ? Yeah, I would do this. It would make the target understand that you have options as-well. agreed.

Author:	Dizzler [ Fri Feb 12, 2010 8:39 pm ]
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So today in class she mentioned she was having a party tonight. At the end of class I said well have fun at your party, and she said yeah I'll send you a facebook invitation and I said I don't really check my FB so just give me your number. So i'm going to call her up to find out where it is rather than get on FB. Looks like I got a nice shot at this, going to roll with a few friends, bring some patron and be the life of that fucking party. That's my game plan. Comments? Advice?

Author:	SeeCarios [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 8:44 am ]
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Quote: Looks like I got a nice shot at this, going to roll with a few friends, bring some patron and be the life of that fucking party. That's my game plan. Patron works everytime lol. how was the party ?

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Author:	mrcoffee999888 [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 8:57 am ]
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LIFE OF THE PARTY my friend! Thats the ONLY advice you need in University game. I hope you walked in with your hands outstretched like you were jesus. and kept everyone at that party entertained, and made love.. so hard to this HB10. lol Good advice all around, but it seemed to be pretty well played on your part.. so.. cheers! What school do you go to if you don't mind the pry?