so heres the scoop. I have this HB7 im seeing and im pretty into her. Now weve been spending alot of time together and shes shown me that shes really into me aswell. Heres where the problem comes in: we went to a movie last week and she forgot her phone in the theator, only noticing when we got back to my place. I told her id go pick up her phone in the morning since i had the day off work. I did, and naturally since i had the clearance, looked through it. Alot of texts from dudes, most of which harmless except for one conversation. this is how it went:

Dude: Hey baby, what are you up to tonight?
HB7: Hey darling, just on my way home from a cottage, im pretty spend ***Cottage which i took her to btw***
Dude: Sounds like you partied, take a drive into the city to come see me
HB7: what did you have in mind, i'm pretty low mode today
Dude: Well i just wanted a low mode, low clothing kind if night if you know what i mean
HB7: sounds like fun!

so this bothered me obviously since weve been dating for 2 and ahalf months now.
my question is: whats my next move ? i thought about confrontation but then she would know i went through her shit!

any suggestions of what to do ?

You want the reality of the situation? The situation is you are wining and dining her, while that other dude is 69'ing her. You are taking her to the cottage and other things, while she is traveling to see him to fuck his brains out.

Now that you know the score, treat it as such. Stop doing shit for this girl. Let her chase YOU, much like she's doing that other guy. The whole fact you picked up her phone for her is pathetic. Dude, she's a big girl and can handle her own stuff. The fact she got you to run and get it showed how much of a pansy you are. After all, was it YOUR fault she left her phone there? So why are you going over there on your day off.

For the love of god, don't say anything in regards to the texts you saw. If you are sitting at a high stakes poker table and you got to see somebody's hand, would you tell them? HELL NO. She'll think you are a creeper and a individual with self confidence issues if you do.

Also, start seeing other people PRONTO.

You guys ever play with little pussies? An interesting thing really . . .

You chase them all around and they meow and and run around having a ball. If you quit, sometimes they'll even come over to you to instigate a little play. So you chase them around and play with them . . . then you chase them into a little corner and play the role of a scary monster.

At first, these little pussies are scared shitless. They look for ways out but you corner it, corner it, corner it . . . then the fear turns to total fucking anger and they start CLAWING their way out. After you let it escape, they're usually too tired to play the game over again until the next day.

Interesting.

Well, what you could do i say i know your've been cheating on me and its over.
You could say i know you've been cheating on me but i forgive you.
I know you've been cheating on me, but that's cool because i've been cheating on you LOADS, looks like we had more in common than i thought...3some?

OR what you could do, is mentally fuck with her, tell here a story about friends you have, and the friend thinks his girlfriend has been cheating on him,.

"he's really upset because he dose not want to lose what he has with her, but he's almost sure that shes being unfaithful ". This will provoke a reaction.
Then say, "its weird though, i mean, i wouldn't care if as long as she was honest and open about it, she must have her reasons. Maybe it's his fault."
Finally finish with " im so lucky ive got you babe", give her a big hug, kiss her softly, then tell her you love her while she breaks down and sobbing confesses. Then just dump her...

Needless to say, you end up dumping her cheating ass either way, or you get a 3some, then dump her. But, as always, its your call.