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Author:  xhander [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 6:20 am ]
Post subject:  "i just wanna be single for a while" help
hey guys need a little helpon this kind of oneitis

background

i started getting clos to this girl but i found out trough a friend that she had a boyfriend so i stopped gaming her and became acting more in a friendly way with her, anyways the day after christmas i saw her and she asked how my christmas was told her that it was great and had a lot of fun with my family and then went out with my friends,

then she told me that she had fun too but she did not get any gifts so i pulled out a bill and started making a heart with it and ran an origami routine that i learned (wich works wonders everytime) and gave it to her, she got all blushed and asked what i was going to do after and then asked if i wanted to go to starbucks or something.

so we went there and had a good time, she was giving a lot of ioi's and stuff and then we left.

next time i saw her we talked and joked for a while then i noticed that she was kinda tired so i grabbed her and turned her around and started giving her a neck massage (im a massage therapist) she was really thenkful for it and after we kept on talking, she asked what i was going to do afterwards, i was going to the club with some friends and told her if she wanted to join us but is under 21 so she asked me if i liked to watch movies, or bowling, or ice skating, i told her yea that we should do that sometime and told her i was gonna call her someday, she responds with yea we should specially since i dont have a boyfriend anymore.

after like 2 weeks i called her and asked out to the movies(i know what you guys think about the movies), but she asked me who else was going or if it was just me and her, i told her that she could bring some friends if she wanted and i would too, so i told her that i was gonna call her the next day to tell her at what time we could go, i called her and told her that i was gonna pick her up at 7 she then asked who else was coming i told her im not bringing anybody i just wanna take you ( trying to fix the previous mistake, and trying to let her know that it wasn't just a hang out with a friend)

anyways i the whole thing went great, great conversation the whole time, teased her a little bit and during the movie tried to do some kino her body language was pretty open sometimes and reserved others, during the movie i putted myself really close to her so everytime that she would make a comment or ask me anything our faces were pretty close to wich she kept on asking and getting closer.

after the movie we lost the car and end up walking around the mall for a while wich she told me she was enjoying,

anyways on our way back home i asked her if she was gonna go back to her boyfriend and she replied that she was 100% sure that she wont but then said that she wants to be single for a while ( she is 20 and was with her boyfriend for 4 years) wich i ignored a we kept on talking about other stuff then i did the cube on her but i told her to grab my hand and she kept holding it for the whole routine,

after that i dropped her and she said she had a lot of fun and we'll see each other on wednesday.

so basically the cuestion is what should i do now, i know she is interested but, she just got out of the relationship, im gonna see her on wednesday but i still feel that im falling into the LJBF thing and i obviously dont want that.

one more thing is that one time she almost found me making out with a girl, and everytime that she sees me with my female friends they are always hugging me and stuff. to what she said that it kinda bothers her a lot.
Author:  Crowd [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 7:00 am ]
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Try to keep an abundance mentality, there are plenty of women in the world, so don't worry so much about fucking it up, because more than likely that in itself will fuck it up.

It sounds like this girl just got out of a relationship, but really wanted you to fuck her...like that same day...

Her:"So do you like to watch movies, or bowl, or go ice skating?"

You: "Absolutely love to! In fact I'm going to __________ tonight! You should join me! Its gonna be awesome."

Then: Before the opening credits roll, you guys should already be on your way to foreplay.

Look, maybe this isn't your style, but you worrying about her running back to her boyfriend is a DLV. You're not conveying the sort of confidence that a selector conveys. You're also conveying a certain sense of neediness.

If you stop yourself long enough to just enjoy her company, listen to her subtle hints, and take advantage of opportunities that present themselves, you'll be balls deep in her anus in no time! JK! (or am I?! :D)
Author:  PUA_CHRIS [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 7:53 am ]
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Yeah she's into you. You should have kissed her at the cinema though, especially since she kept putting her face near your's.

My advice though, don't ONS this girl...actually don't deal with her at all(for awhile at least). Shes on the rebound it seems, and shes probably down to fuck, but you really want to give her time before you get with a girl who was in a relationship that long. You don't want a psycho bitch on your hands.
Author:  StreetLight [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 8:18 am ]
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she's looking for a rebound guy and that's you, you won't become a friend if you won't fuck it up. she definatly wants you.. just kiss her, she's trying to give herself for you...

but be aware, youre probably the rebound guy, wich is not a bad thing, and if you want a relationtip with this girl it's. it's easier to become a BF from a rebound then from the friend zone

in short, you don't need advice from any of us, just kiss her and that's it
Author:  xhander [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 3:51 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Try to keep an abundance mentality, there are plenty of women in the world, so don't worry so much about fucking it up, because more than likely that in itself will fuck it up.

It sounds like this girl just got out of a relationship, but really wanted you to fuck her...like that same day...

Her:"So do you like to watch movies, or bowl, or go ice skating?"

You: "Absolutely love to! In fact I'm going to __________ tonight! You should join me! Its gonna be awesome."

Then: Before the opening credits roll, you guys should already be on your way to foreplay.

Look, maybe this isn't your style, but you worrying about her running back to her boyfriend is a DLV. You're not conveying the sort of confidence that a selector conveys. You're also conveying a certain sense of neediness.

If you stop yourself long enough to just enjoy her company, listen to her subtle hints, and take advantage of opportunities that present themselves, you'll be balls deep in her anus in no time! JK! (or am I?! :D)
I do have an abundance mentality but i still worry about fucking it up and you are absolutely right, the fact of thinking about fucking it up will fuck it up.
also i thought that i would take it slow since she was just out of the relathionship, but i guess that it ended up backfiring on me a lil bit.
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If you stop yourself long enough to just enjoy her company, listen to her subtle hints, and take advantage of opportunities that present themselves, you'll be balls deep in her anus in no time! JK! (or am I?! :D
that's the goal isn't it?

thanks for the input man!!
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Yeah she's into you. You should have kissed her at the cinema though, especially since she kept putting her face near your's.

My advice though, don't ONS this girl...actually don't deal with her at all(for awhile at least). Shes on the rebound it seems, and shes probably down to fuck, but you really want to give her time before you get with a girl who was in a relationship that long. You don't want a psycho bitch on your hands.
yep i should've made it more sexually at the cinema but i was really putting attention to the movie.

and im sorry i dont know what ONS stands for, and as for the psycho i havent seen any psycho behaviour, so hopefully she is not.

Thanks for the input.
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she's looking for a rebound guy and that's you, you won't become a friend if you won't fuck it up. she definatly wants you.. just kiss her, she's trying to give herself for you...

but be aware, youre probably the rebound guy, wich is not a bad thing, and if you want a relationtip with this girl it's. it's easier to become a BF from a rebound then from the friend zone

in short, you don't need advice from any of us, just kiss her and that's it
i was actually interested in a relathionship with her but i would be willing to be single too after that kind of long relationship,

so next time i see her , i'll just make a move, if she blows me off i'll nexther.

thanks for the advice guys i appreciate it.
Author:  desertEagle [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 8:56 pm ]
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to be 100% honest i didnt read the short story.....just becasue she wants to be single doenst mean she wouldnt hook up with you... unless yo want the relationship?
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