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| Author: | Paul Van Dyk [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 2:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm being too persistent BUT I CAN'T HELP IT!! please advise |
Hi. My approaches are great but my sticking point is either setting up the day 2 or if the day 2 goes well (but no kiss), setting up day 3 as well. The thing is, is that I know what I'm doing wrong but sometimes I just can't help it. I'm being too persistent. Things like multiple texts if no response with too short of wait period, not acting nonchalant (take it or leave it) enough. I'm texting too quick after the initial meeting too. My personality type is very "addictive." I always want things "right here; right now" and i'm impulsive and impatient. What types of things can I do to force myself to wait longer before reaching out and minimizing my neediness? If the HB is a 9 or 10, I just get antsy as hell and can't get her outta my mind. Then I end up blowing it and texting her because she's all I can think about! LOL. I know the obvious answer that people on this board are gonna say is to find other HB's or have more HB's to occupy my time with. I get it and I'm doing that but when I have idol time on my hands, my will power caves in and I text the hottest one, again, to try and rush the process. Any tips? |
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| Author: | ThomasX [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 2:57 am ] |
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Lol goodness my man, you sound crazy. And you sound exactly like me... I'll tell you something the rest here won't, because I can tell you this from personal experience. You may have Dependent Personality Disorder. Get evaluated by a psych and fix that ****. Girls don't like clingy guys, they just don't. I personally like the personality you've projected from your post, but it just isn't gonna fly with the females usually. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 3:50 am ] |
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Simple. . . STOP trusting your emotional self and start trusting your logical self. Your original post clearly shows that you are able to self analyze and reflect on your own actions. If so, put trust on your own logical abilities by WRITING DOWN A COURSE OF ACTION. If you can sit there and write down what's exactly good and bad about your game, then go a little further and write down a PLAN. Begin with your goals. What are your goals? Is it your goal to call/text girls all the time or is it your goal to gain close relationships? Calls and texts are merely tools to help you achieve your goals. There's nothing wrong with "addictive attitudes" in itself. Just be sure that you know what you are addicted to . . . and learn to manage it. Set your goals straight and transfer your addictions to YOUR GOALS. Then create a STRICT course of action that helps you achieve those goals. Since you already know that you have the propensity of over calling and over texting when you are excited. Write down a plan that you know works better while you are not feeling those emotions over specific girls. Put all of this into a time line with "OPEN GIRL(S)" in the very beginning and your "CLOSE" at the end. What goes in between? Well . . . it's up to your LOGICAL MIND. So write all of this down. . . the number of calls and texts, when you will do all of this and how you will respond when she calls back. FOLLOW the PLAN! Stick with it and don't deviate. When you begin to see positive results, you will also automatically begin to change the way you deal with girls. Allow your logical self to teach your emotional self how to game. Writing down a plan and following through is one way to do this. Good luck. |
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