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Author:  Playfull [ Fri Feb 05, 2010 5:24 pm ]
Post subject:  On the importance of hight
Hello guys,
i was reading around the forum and got into some threads generally talking about looks and how important they are to a PUA. now i'm not a bad looking guy but i'm short as shit (1.63 m' or 5'4) and alot of the girls i meet are as tall as me, some even taller. i know some really tall girls have something like a short guy fetish and sometimes that's cool and all, but i was wondering how much will that affect my game - since this is my primary insecurity problem.
should i not be trying to approach girls that are taller than i am?

any other short guys on the forum that can share their experience?

Thanks
Author:  thomas the train [ Sat Feb 06, 2010 1:28 am ]
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It's only a problem if you make it a problem. And there's not a whole lot you can do to change your height, so you might as well work with what you got. There are going to be chicks that won't be into you because you aren't 5'10 just like there would be chicks that aren't into you because your eyes are brown instead of blue.

Forget those chicks. There are plenty who won't even notice your height if your game is tight. (I know, that rhymes.)
Author:  jurupa [ Sat Feb 06, 2010 1:35 am ]
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To say that your height won't hurt you would be lying as it will hurt you some. But as long as you don't allow it to get to you and you are secure in your height, you be fine.
Author:  BreakingTheCurse [ Sat Feb 06, 2010 6:38 am ]
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I'm not tall either (5'6"), but that isn't a major problem for me. I've been short all my life, so I'm used to it. I don't normally pursue girls much taller than me simply because I'm not into them. When I realized I was never going to be that tall, I began to hit the gym. Although I'm short, I have more muscle than most people. I've found that more people notice my athletic frame more than my height.
Author:  mymeowcat [ Sat Feb 06, 2010 7:23 am ]
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Yeah --- I am only 5 foot 6 inches. I usually dont hit on taller girls unless they are clearly into me first. There are lots of hot short girls but there are also lots of fat and plumpy short girls with funny proportions too.

You have to be tighter in your game.

Just a short guy tip: When I get rapport or seem to be having a gopod tie with a taller girl (BUT I think it'll fall apart for one reason or another) I use her as preselection DHV. BUT if she is standing and overshadowing me --- I make her sit down and do all bodily movements and BL like as if we were together. This way the rest of the bar sees me as more "preselected"...then I go after the cute and hot short ones.
Author:  Playfull [ Sat Feb 06, 2010 11:38 am ]
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Thank you for the responses :)
i actually don't mind playing with this handicap because it can allow me to be really good at my game..
beyond a certain level one might not know the amount of "help" his game gets from physical features, this way if i'll be in a level that a can consistently pick up chicks taller than me i'll know its all game :)
but i will take your advice and for now try and find girls more or less as tall as me or shorter (i actually don't really care about height or other features like hair color, skin color, eye color etc' as long as the girls hot - its a matter of proportions).
guess all i have left now is continue getting better in this game...
you'll be seeing alot of me ;)
Author:  Double J [ Sun Feb 07, 2010 2:40 am ]
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I think this is sorta universal in some respects, people like people and give more value to tall people at first glance. However this is a very minor effect that will be instantly overlooked as soon as you move your mouth and unleash a wave of solid awesome.

You actually have a good amount of pro's to look forward to as well.

1# You can create the under the radar effect because you seem non threatening
2# You can neg harder and get away with it, again because of the non threatening.
3# you WILL get called cute more, which is nice.
4# if you get into an AMOG battle, girls will be on your side and help blow the guy out.
5# you can get away with larger AMOG moves because guys wont be able to act violently towards you without invoking a bullying vibe.

These are what my friend uses and he's of a similar height to you.
Hope this help's.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Feb 07, 2010 8:09 am ]
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2# You can neg harder and get away with it, again because of the non threatening.
Height has no factor here.
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3# you WILL get called cute more, which is nice.
It can also go against you as well. As girls view cute differently.
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4# if you get into an AMOG battle, girls will be on your side and help blow the guy out.
Thats if you have already won the girl. Otherwise your on your own.
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5# you can get away with larger AMOG moves because guys wont be able to act violently towards you without invoking a bullying vibe.
Not true at all. I been able to not come off as a bully and still out AMOG a short guy. But then my job is security. :lol:
Author:  Double J [ Sun Feb 07, 2010 1:22 pm ]
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^If you say so.
Author:  silverback [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 8:16 am ]
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Hey man I'm short myself. Where it affects me the most is online dating. Women just don't seem to respond often to short guys. But the good news is that I'm short and have had several very hot girlfriends. HB 8's and 9's. I won't lie and say that it's never frustrating but you just have to not make it a big deal and feel on top of the world. Women will notice your attitude much more than your height once you get into a conversation.
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