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| Author: | BackwardsMarathon [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 5:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Did I put my foot in my mouth? |
Hey guys, firstly, I'm not new here. I posted a lot here a while back under the name SunOfNothing but lost the log in information. Anyway, I'm back because I have a quick question that even I, semi-pro (jokes), needs help with. Here it is: So, I'm talking to this girl I've been into for a few months--talked to her off and on since I've been legitimately busy, but I'm realizing I need to do something about this asap. I'm pulling all the right strings and pressing all the right buttons, then, I get really daring: I bring up the fact that I recently "semi-dated" a girl who called me boring and I made up a little bit how it kept me up most of the night pondering to which she laughed and assured me I'm not boring. Conversation continues for a little bit then I eject. Did I stick my foot in my mouth by either removing myself from her radar or by sharing that did I "friend" myself? Thanks guys. |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 9:21 am ] |
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I think you might not being seeing the situation clearly because of some history you have had with women. I want to break it down for you like I see it. You said your ex broke up with you because you are boring. She said your not boring. I would suggest that he likes you. Why don't you take it a step further and ask her out on a date. |
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| Author: | thomas the train [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 10:11 am ] |
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I think it might have been a mistake to bring up your ex and say that she called you boring, framed in such a way that it looks like you're seeking this new chick's approval. She is supposed to be seeking your approval, not the other way around. |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 12:55 pm ] |
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It's not clear cut. We don't understand your relationship well enough. Gives us more information. |
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| Author: | PUA_CHRIS [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 6:46 pm ] |
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Quote: I think it might have been a mistake to bring up your ex and say that she called you boring, framed in such a way that it looks like you're seeking this new chick's approval. She is supposed to be seeking your approval, not the other way around.
 Right on the money
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| Author: | saqchek [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Did I put my foot in my mouth? |
Quote: I bring up the fact that I recently "semi-dated" a girl who called me boring and I made up a little bit how it kept me up most of the night pondering to which she laughed and assured me I'm not boring. Conversation continues for a little bit then I eject.
Did I stick my foot in my mouth by either removing myself from her radar or by sharing that did I "friend" myself? Thanks guys. Short answer: Yes, you did. |
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| Author: | desertEagle [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 8:41 pm ] |
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personally , to me, whenever i talk about other relationships with a girl, its friend-friend. |
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