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How not to F up canned lines...for newbies
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Author:  Miko999 [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 3:34 pm ]
Post subject:  How not to F up canned lines...for newbies
Out there, in the community, there are a ridiculous number of canned openers, routines, patterns and otherwise pre-made bull$hit that tons of guys are looking for, and sharing with each other. Everyone wants to know "what's the BEST line!?" but they're asking the wrong question. What they should be asking, is what's the best line for ME!

Spend enough time in the community and eventually you'll come to the realization that the goal is to be "natural", that is to develop a strong "frame", unshakable confidence and to have an understanding of women and the ability and desire to build a connection, otherwise known as attraction, with them. This doesn't mean you can't use so-called 'lines' but it does mean one thing. To a large extent you must be yourself, even when using canned lines.

So how do you be yourself and use lines at the same time? Instead of asking yourself, what's the best line(no such thing), you ask yourself 1 question.

Could I HAVE COME UP WITH THIS ON MY OWN on the spot if I were in the best mood ever totally having a blast and just plain ON that night?

For example, I've heard one line that goes like this,

"Nice shoes, do they come in womens too?"
Well, never in a million friggin years would I have come up with that on my own. It's not a BAD line, in fact many think it's a great line, but it's just weird to me.

Another line that I had heard on some message board was

"What's a slut like you doing in a classy joint like this?"
I Love this one, it's something I might have come up with on my own b/c it's completely offensive but I know I could sprinkle my signature smirk all over it and make it sweet. It fits me b/c I don't bull$hit around and really enjoy saying things that are offensive in a NON-offensive manner. It's fun for me. Say what's fun for you.

Next time you see a canned line that you think is good, I want you to ask yourself,

"Could I have come up with this on my best day?"
"Can I say it like I own it?"
"Does it fit ME and the REST of my personality or game?"

Because if any of these are untrue it's likely that the girls "superpowers" or "sixth sense" will see right through you. They're like psychics sometimes if you don't have your frame tight. Saying things that are not part of you in some way will turn your frame to mush as if it doesn't go perfectly you'll be scrambling to find a "comeback" that fits with your fake personality. You end up saying the "line" and then waiting.......for some sort of confirmation that what you said was "cool" or for "permission" to continue...F*** that!!!

The best "naturals" I know say the SAME $hit over and over again, but guess what, it's their own "material" and they own it, they know it fits them, they say it right, they don't wait for confirmation that it was cute or funny, every line is their own secret weapon and they know that they aren't being fake. And most importantly, if the girl doesn't like it, they don't care b/c they had fun saying that hilarious line that they came up with.

Some lines will make you feel like a genius, and some will make you feel fake. It's not what you say, it's how you feel when you say it. Women often don't hear what you say, but they see how you feel when you do.

Moral of the story, don't be afraid to use canned stuff, and don't be afraid to use the same canned stuff over and over again. Just make sure it's you! You don't need a huge arsenal of 'lines', just a few good ones that you're comfortable with and will allow you to keep your 'frame' and be 'congruent' with your real personality.

Hope this helps someone out there who's throwing the wrong lines around and getting blown out all the time and possibly discouraged. Remember...Have Fun!!!
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