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| Author: | Mr. Metal [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | smokin' hot flirty chick =) ...yeah one-itis I know =( |
So a few days ago I met this solid 9 at while having lunch with some friends. Not only was she beautiful, she also had an amazing, flirty personality, and was not full of herself like many 9's are. I decided to play it cool, and it seemed to work in the beginning. There was chemistry. But somewhere down the line, I either became too cocky and not funny enough or appeared to be too interested. She did not seem to be interested in flirting and, well, initiating conversation. At that point I decided to just redeem myself after lunch when I can be in semi-isolation with her, and ask her out if she's shows signs of being interested. But she left early with her friend and I never even got that opportunity. I was so shocked at how abruptly she left I didn't even ask for her number or facebook. I know about the dangers of one-itis, but honestly, let's face it. A girl this hot and also with a great personality that isn't superficial is hard to find these days. I talked to my (kinda drunk) friend about this, and he told me to add her on facebook. As he put it, what would I have to lose? So that's what I did. I figured out a game plan. Sent her a message saying hi while adding her, pretending to be drunk to try to justify my facebook creeping. If she ignores it, I'm fucked and there's nothing I can do about this. But I'm 95% sure she'll respond. When she does I plan to get her number so I can ask her out. This is where I'm completely ignorant and retarded. This is the first time I've gone to such lengths for the sake of one girl. How do I carry this out successfully (from facebook to phone to asking her out) without sounding like a creep? I know the "proper PUA" thing to do is to move on and not spend so much time and energy focusing on a single girl, but I like challenges. And I believe I have the potential to make this happen, despite the fact that the odds are not in my favour. Any advice from anyone is appreciated, thanks. |
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| Author: | leftytheking [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 5:21 am ] |
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Connection with her on an emotional level is the most important thing. A big newbie mistake is to try so hard to demonstrate high value that they look EXACTLY like that- trying really hard to DHV to her. If you want her to notice, don't try to impress her as much as try to *connect* with her. If you have that kind of attitude, chances are your DHVs will be a lot smoother and more natural, and she will be more receptive to your interest. Be clear with her that usually a girl that is as good looking as her doesn't have much personality and that the looks don't matter as much as getting to know *her*. |
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