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| Author: | XmaX [ Sat Jan 30, 2010 7:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I have no idea how to game this girl... |
There is this HB8 I've known for 2 years now, but really just started seriously talking to her in November and realized how nice she is. She always seems happy to talk to me, let it be online or in person, and I haven't really seen any IODs from her. She's generally quite flirty, but she gives hardly any IOIs, suggesting she's might not be that into me. Anyway, I started doing something about her recently. The problem is, my only contact with her throughout the day occurs in the library, where she's revising for her exams. Not only there are many people around (so kino might be difficult), it's quiet (so there are things I can't really say loud without the whole library hearing it), and she's obviously busy - so I can't really stay there talking to her for hours. Inviting her out now also seems out of a question. The main problem, however, is that her exams start in 10 days, and after that I won't really see her that much at all, so I'd have to do most of my game before that. She has a boyfriend, but she told me she's planning to break up with him, so I don't really count that as an obstacle. Also, the reason she wants to break up with him is that he doesn't provide her moral support when she's stressed during revision - and that's exactly what I'm doing. How do I proceed from now? What should I do? |
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| Author: | minsok [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 2:59 am ] |
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Sounds like she's playing you. Now she's getting everything she wants, why the hell would she break up with her boyfriend? Make yourself scarce, immediately. If she seeks you out, tell her you don't want to get mixed up with a girl that's in a relationship. I'll bet you UK to US currency she'll say something like "you're just a friend, why should it matter if she has a bf?" |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 3:44 am ] |
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Minsok made some great points.The greatest point he made was that this chicc is playing you Xmax. Wake the fucc up Xmax;Im disapponted in you for being such a wussy. Why the F are you providing this girl with moral support or what not when it comes to her studies!? You are gonna become her emotional sponge where she confides in you about wanting to leave her looser/jerk boyfriend!! If you keep it up,this will be you and her. Xmax:So sweet heart,I really want you to succeed in school.I pray for you nightly to pass. Target:Oh,that's so sweet.My jerk bf would never say anything sweet as that nor encourage me. Xmax:Im her for you forever baby.Im not a jerk. Then,she'd eventually give you an excuse for you to leave,then she'd call over her jerk bf to fuck her or some other guy who doesn't give a shit about her schooling(lol). She will put your ass in the LJBF zone fast as hell!! Stop being her moral support on her passing that test. Fuck her test and ambitions until you've already lay her and may want to make her your girl. This chicc will use you.Why?Because you're making it possible by friending your way in via being her moral support. Despite her talking shit about her bf,he's still fucking him and cheating on him with 2 other jerks/badboys who don't care about her studies. You're the only 1 praising yourself for being there for her morally and you will be the only 1 not getting to lay her. This' pick up- a cold world lacking morals. Being there for a girl doesn't win you points nor the girl. When she wants to talk about school,you should be the guy telling her to shut that damn book and let me tell you about something interesting,then go into some routine or DHV story. Be the prick with her in the library not taking her studies seriously! When she has her book in her hand,playfully snatch it away. Playful gets you laid,not fucking mentoring and listening to her talk shit about leaving her man. |
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| Author: | XmaX [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 12:43 pm ] |
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Cheers guys. I also started to feel this might go LJBF. I guess I do need to start doing things differently. I'll keep you posted if there's any progress. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 6:01 pm ] |
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Yea keep us posted. Remember,playful gets you laid. Being a jerk gets you laid. teasing gets you laid. You'd mentioned that you were not comfortable negging her. Well,get comfortable with it and neg her on being a nerd for studying so hard |
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| Author: | XmaX [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 6:14 pm ] |
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Quote: You'd mentioned that you were not comfortable negging her.
I never said I'm not comfortable negging her. True, I'm not usually comfortable with it, but it's different with her. I did call her a nerd a few times before, but in my social circle most of the people would probably take it as a compliment (I know how bad it sounds). I'll try to come up with some good stuff before seeing her tonight.
Well,get comfortable with it and neg her on being a nerd for studying so hard |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 8:39 pm ] |
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Well come up with some good negs and use them. I'd really hate for her to LJBF you for playing it safe. |
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| Author: | minsok [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:51 am ] |
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Dude, you should step away for awhile. If you were really a pillar of support for her that she wasn't getting elsewhere, she'll notice you're missing and reach out to you, which puts the ball firmly in your court. If you keep going to her, she is going to take you for granted and lower your value. You're flooding the market. |
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