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Author:  psychosylocibin [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Is leaving a long time between 2nd meeting a bad idea?
My question is, assuming you have attracted the girl and she HAS admitted to liking you after hanging out with you once and reaching a physically intimate level, is it bad to wait a long time for the 2nd meeting? (7 or more days).

I ask this because I saw someone last week (on thurs). We ended up back at her place and she admitted that she liked me and was concerned that she was just going to be a booty call. I told her I liked her too and wanted to see her again (I dont believe in holding back and not telling someone you like them, unless of course it is just mindless infatuation).

She is a resident so she works 70 + hours a week. We could not schedule anything until the next week (7 days later). From my previous experience, waiting this long can reduce the attraction, even if she was very attracted to you in the first meeting.

this is just an example, but I was wondering what you guys think, in a general sense?
Author:  Chillburg [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:32 pm ]
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First off, I like your name :D

But on topic:

Yeah it can reduce attraction but then again, if you really impressed her and she's really attracted to you it can build up a lot of (good) tension as well! You can always text her to keep her thinking of you, or give her something simple like a bracelet that you used to wear or whatever that will remind her of you while she's at work, but maybe that's for a later stage.

Keep her mind occupied with you (but that doesnt mean you should text her too often!)
Author:  psychosylocibin [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 7:57 pm ]
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Ha thanks, its more related to an old incubus song than the psychoactive drug...

Anyways,

It makes sense what you are saying - obviously if you a good enough impression on her she will at least be willing to still hang out with you, even if the attraction does wane. And you can just build it up from there again :D

She did mention that she had a crush on me / all these other signs that she was very attracted to me, so I think I am good there.

On a reverse note, it has been a week since I have seen her and even I am feeling not as attracted, just because I have not seen her in a while. Funny thing. Guess we will see how it goes.
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