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| Author: | asdf000 [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 3:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | meeting a girl through her best friend |
im planning to meet my target through her best friend. the plan is im going to number close her best friend, set up times to hang out with her best friend but dont go any further than c1 as i do not want her best friend to like me more than as a friend.the target will of course hear about what a great guy i am and i will inevitably meet my target through her best friend.i will run the game from a2 with her friend present(a two set) and number close the target.i will then proceed with the rest of the stages c2,c3 etc. what do you guys think?any possible problems? |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 3:57 am ] |
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You're very creative Asdf000(lol).Wil it benefit you?We'll see. Basically what you're trying to do is befriend the obstacle(would-be),or disarm the friend(a possible enemy-lol).Good idea. But to actualy go as far as # closing the friend-I think you don't have to go there and risk her rejecting the #close attempt.Just chat her up until comfort phase 1 as you suggested. Now,a little female psychology I learned from reading picc-up articles online.Im not sure which PUA came up with this insight but I love it."A girl values what her friends think more than what she thinks". So basically,if her friend(s)doesnt like you,your ass is grass!!!No chance once her friends doesn't approve unless te target knows you prior.So the best remedy for that is befriending or disarming her friends.And you already planned that(good). But don't go out of your way to do that.If the friend isn't an obstacle,don't bother befriending her.That's my opinion.If the friend is always with the target,well befriend her. |
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| Author: | asdf000 [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 4:45 am ] |
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Quote: You're very creative Asdf000(lol).Wil it benefit you?We'll see.
thank you. you are right when you say girls value what their friends think more than what they themselves think which is one of the reasons why i wanted to take this approach. my target is a "beta female" meaning she follows what her best friends do or like. this is especially true when it comes to guys- she doesn't seem to be comfortable with guys who aren't approved by her best friends.now i wanted to number close her best friend(we will just call her "the best friend"for our purposes) because out of the two of them the target gets hit on a lot. when the best friend is approached to hang out, she will be interested unless you mention the target, then she blows the guy out because she knows the guy is just befriending her to get to the target.now, i wanted to number close the best friend because it shows that i dont care about the target and just her(at this point the best friend still thinks i have no knowledge of the target).once i win over the best friend she will tell the target what a great guy i am and the target will naturally want to meet me. so yes the best friend is a major obstacle. befriending this best friend is part of a larger plan to create a circle of social influence around her. if the target hangs out with any of her best friends and their friends, she won't be able to do so without hearing about me, or running into me(because i'm hanging out with them).so she will be socially trapped by my influence, and she will have no choice but to like me. she will be in a social vicegrip. checkmate the queen is mine.
Basically what you're trying to do is befriend the obstacle(would-be),or disarm the friend(a possible enemy-lol).Good idea. But to actualy go as far as # closing the friend-I think you don't have to go there and risk her rejecting the #close attempt.Just chat her up until comfort phase 1 as you suggested. Now,a little female psychology I learned from reading picc-up articles online.Im not sure which PUA came up with this insight but I love it."A girl values what her friends think more than what she thinks". So basically,if her friend(s)doesnt like you,your ass is grass!!!No chance once her friends doesn't approve unless te target knows you prior.So the best remedy for that is befriending or disarming her friends.And you already planned that(good). But don't go out of your way to do that.If the friend isn't an obstacle,don't bother befriending her.That's my opinion.If the friend is always with the target,well befriend her. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 3:04 pm ] |
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You got this all figured out;Im starting to think that you're a master PUA on the downlow(lol). Good thing that you see that the target is a beta-female and the best way round that is via her alpha friends. |
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