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| Author: | Snizzidee [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 4:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help with possibly first girl: next step |
Hey guys, firstly, (obviously) I am in High school this girl I'm fairly sure I've already built enough attraction with: - as much kino as polite society permits - was getting a but of attitude with me via text, and when I called her out on it she apologized profusely and felt embarassed. (I think she was tryin to tease me but thru text it's akward) Anyway, I think I've developed that attraction, now I really need help with how to get k-close. I'm thinking I would text her and see if she was free for a walk. During thus walk I would stop teasing Like usual and build rapport. Then as we reach the park I figured we would sit down on the ground and (it's kind if cold) so I'd gt close to her then optimally kiss her. That's my plan, what I wanna ask is hiw do I get from that text apology of hers (which I of course was like np, teasing with that wouldn't have worked) to on the sidewalk walking to the park. In other words hiw do I ask? Also what if I ask and she's actually busy (midterm time). Can I ask her again? So I would honestly consider myself just a little better than an rAFC, I would REALLY appreciate help with this girl |
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| Author: | safety [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 2:01 pm ] |
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hhmmm maybe build a yes ladder i.e ask her a bunch of questions she will reply to with a yes all in succession (to get her in a yes kinda mood haha) . then suggest a walk or whatever but dont outright say lets do it. try and find out what she is doing before u plan to ask her and after suggesting it if she doesnt say "yea we should do that or whatever" make it sound like alot of fun and then just ask. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:54 pm ] |
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why not tell her "well, you can make it up to me by buying me a coffee, i've got an hour off from (whatever you say, make it sound interesting or like you're really busy) *** so let's hit the road." |
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| Author: | Snizzidee [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | K thnx |
Wright. Thnx so much for the suggestions, I've moved past that were gonna go to the park or some shit tmmrw. Now, any advice for what to do tmmrw. I know it's gonna rain around one pm, and I hav volunteer work at twelve, so it needs to be in the morning but what is she's sleeping (it would be around like 10:30 or something. If u think I'm overthinking this just tell me lol I can already tell, but still advice is good |
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| Author: | Snizzidee [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 6:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | K thnx |
Wright. Thnx so much for the suggestions, I've moved past that were gonna go to the park or some shit tmmrw. Now, any advice for what to do tmmrw. I know it's gonna rain around one pm, and I hav volunteer work at twelve, so it needs to be in the morning but what is she's sleeping (it would be around like 10:30 or something. If u think I'm overthinking this just tell me lol I can already tell, but still advice is good |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 12:19 pm ] |
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Yes you are over thinking this. Go with your instinct and try not to get too attatched to a girl you're not even dating yet! |
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| Author: | Snizzidee [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:23 pm ] |
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Cool thanks up in the night, true dat were not even dating |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:49 pm ] |
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Its Turn Up the Night but I'll let you off.
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| Author: | RockyD [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:56 pm ] |
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Yes ladder, DLV ROUTINE and then K-close. thats what id do |
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| Author: | Snizzidee [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 9:05 pm ] |
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Cool thanks up in the night, true dat were not even dating |
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| Author: | SmoothRider [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 9:21 pm ] |
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This is very simple. You already have attraction, so all you need to do is whisper in her ear "Don't worry, trust me", and then gently kiss her. The location is fine, but it really doesn't matter much. Sure you need to get her in a relaxed mindset, so the walking thing is cool, but you are overthinking it a little bit.. Anyway, kiss her gently, and I bet she will smile afterwards! |
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| Author: | Snizzidee [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:10 pm ] |
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thanks everyone for your help im lovin this community feeling i get here and the situation turned out to be a mess mistakes: 1. went for an LSE girl 2. had no idea what i was doing 3. actually got intimidated by the idea of a relationship wit this LSE(!) girl im feeling so much better and more confident for some reason after the mess, ima read magic bullets and practice with every girl i meet in the hallway lol thanks again |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:21 pm ] |
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Sounds like you were over thinking. The community here is great and people will advise you the best they can, although alot of pickup is natural instinct, so go with your gut feeling! Always try to DHV, don't show to much interest and mainly be alpha about it, stay in control, and what i do, make them feel bad when possible haha. |
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