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Author:  Spike007 [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 4:10 am ]
Post subject:  Straight answers, how to deal with them
Yesterday I was in a very akward situation...I was waiting for the bus and I saw a very hot girl coming to wait for the same bus. I thought she was in one of my class and I thought there is a good occasion to open her. So I went to ask her a question about the class (maybe AFC...but it was in the moment). It was a real question anyway that I need an answer. :P Anyway at first she looked at me...then, made a weird face without answering. Then I asked her if she was in my class and said a "No". I didn't know what to say after that...I had an idea how to lead the conversation from my question but I didn't even think about talking to the wrong girl. -.-

Anyway I am still glade I talked to her because it's situation like this that make me inprove my game. So what do you do when you get a straight answer like that without even starting the conversation? I would like to say that I was waiting for the bus...so there were a lot of people arround and no one was talking so the field wasn't really good for gaming her...
Author:  Snizzidee [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 5:10 am ]
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First of all, don't apologize for the English (just work to make it better if u feel u have to).

Anyway, I can definitely see hiw that siuation could be akward, but I don't think you shouldve just shut up because she said "no". She is to other people having to WORK to get her attention, so u don't necessarily want to just plow (with ngs and stuff), as she could completely shut u out easily. In situations like this, don. Just talk to the pretty girl, instead gun around and talk to the fatty mcfatty pants, or the soccer mom, or even the working class bro reading a newspaper. That way, she thinks "this guy isn't just tryin to get in my pants (like everyone else) he's a genuinly social, interesting guy. Then after you strike up one or even a couple other convo's u can turn to her again and start somehing up (maybe with a couple of negs if she's still a bit of a b).

Lol there u go buddy
Author:  jurupa [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 1:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Straight answers, how to deal with them
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Yesterday I was in a very akward situation...I was waiting for the bus and I saw a very hot girl coming to wait for the same bus. I thought she was in one of my class and I thought there is a good occasion to open her. So I went to ask her a question about the class (maybe AFC...but it was in the moment). It was a real question anyway that I need an answer. :P Anyway at first she looked at me...then, made a weird face without answering. Then I asked her if she was in my class and said a "No". I didn't know what to say after that...I had an idea how to lead the conversation from my question but I didn't even think about talking to the wrong girl. -.-

Anyway I am still glade I talked to her because it's situation like this that make me inprove my game. So what do you do when you get a straight answer like that without even starting the conversation? I would like to say that I was waiting for the bus...so there were a lot of people arround and no one was talking so the field wasn't really good for gaming her...
NEVER ever plan out your conversations. Its one of the worst things you can do. Because you never know how a girl is going to respond/act when you talk to her. You need to be always on your feet when it comes to talking to girls and people in general. As you need to be ready for the unexpected replies that as you seen get thrown at you and you need to react quickly to them.
Author:  Ezo [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 1:36 pm ]
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That question is a yes or no question. It has probably never worked and will probably never work.
Thats the problem with going situational, you dont have a backstory, no reason for asking her other than to get a conversation going.

And, I agree, never plan your conversations, that is just stupid!
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