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| Author: | Inthazone [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The Game Can fuck with your head |
okay , all this HB rating system , building kino , rapport blah blah blah is just distorting our view of girls . In my opinion it just complicates our interactions with girls forcing us to do too much when we get the chance . The Most Important PUA tool is common sense . All you really have to do is stop being a bitch (AFC in the games case , I`ll call it a bitch ) and get out there and start talking to girls Using common sense in relative situations . All these stupid opinion openers are completely irrelevant and girls will see right threw them and catch your real intentions . They are not stupid . The game almost causes a cluster fuck in your mind when really all you should do when interacting with girls is trust your instincts , act normal and be a cool guy . No girl is really going to notice all these stupid tactics , they are not efficient . you just make yourself look like an idiot. believe me . PUA is all about hiding your real intentions which is shallow and this HB rating system really turns your views of girls almost into robots . Maybe if we all considered them just people like us we would succeed with them. You guys call girls Targets ..what is this , a game of battle ship .. No , they are just people guys ,and they will respond best to a man using common sense . And if there is one thing i learned about picking up and girls (in my case everday high school situations ) it is a lot better when you just go out there and do what you want and drop all of these stupid rules and tactics . Girls will respond better than a guy constantly trying to make moves or using stupid lines. It is really unpersonalized . And we talk about being the alpha male , I don`t see sitting on this website reading how to be an alpha male very alpha. You just gotta have natural confidence , there are somethings that cannot be taught . Stop looking at everything so complicated. So remember guys stop being a bitch and some common sense all you need. I see posts all the time like : what should i say ? How was this text conversation ? how long after should i call ? This is just showing alot of guys on here have a lack of character ? what should i say ? i dont know you know the girl best , say whatever you want . How was this text Conversation ? do you think it really matters ? the girl has probably forgetten about it How long should i wait to call back? i don`t know how about using some judgement but it really doesn`t matter see where im going with this ? |
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| Author: | PUAStudent [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 8:06 pm ] |
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Ok...so why are you on this forum in the first place? |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 8:21 pm ] |
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The problem is that everybody has a different view on what common sense is. The fact that people constantly fail is proof enough. I dont know how much you know about game, either you know less than most or more than most... All these rules and guidelines and techniques are there to guide people through a phase where they build a sort of experience in this. After seeing what works and not they develop a common sense that works. Common sense is subject to your mindset and people need to develop one that works for them instead of against them. So dont bash people just because they need to practice. |
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| Author: | Guidosaurus Wrecks [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 8:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Game Can fuck with your head |
Quote: okay , all this HB rating system , building kino , rapport blah blah blah is just distorting our view of girls . In my opinion it just complicates our interactions with girls forcing us to do too much when we get the chance.
Girls are complicated creatures. Kino? Its used because if you like the girl you would like to touch her, It is just acting out the instinct in a subtle way to get the girl used to your touch. VERY important tool. Rapport? Try building a relationship with a girl without comfort. If she isnt comfortable talking to you/being with you, what makes you think that she will stick around for a long time? The HB rating system? I cant say anything new about it without sounding like a broken record.Common sense is the most important tool in a PUAs arsenal. Common sense is the collection of personal experiences that dictate direction in your world. Some men havent had experience with women or are missing general life experiences, so not all of them can fall back on this tool. These opinion openers are canned material for a man to fall back on If his mind freezes up, which some puas experience in the beggining. The opinion opener is simply a line that you put faith on, it gets the job done. Some people need to learn to program themselves to be alpha, not everyone reading an alpha thread is spending forever on the computer, many of us go into the field. Text game is a different creature, to my experience the first few texts are the most important and pave the way for the rest of the conversation. Its like making a first impression, it needs to count. By all means do what works for you, everyone has their own style. You cant deny results. |
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