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| Author: | Cowboy_09 [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 9:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | If at first they don't text back...... |
Closed an HB9 today. One of the hottest women i've closed in the daytime so far. We had a 15 minute chat, made a good connection and she gave me her number. I even rang hers from my phone, so that she had my number. And it was real  Text her but no response. Is there a follow up contact that you can use to bait them into texting back. How about..... "hey , im guessing your low on credit. Lets stay in touch through Facebook. Its ............" Any other suggestions? |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 9:30 pm ] |
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nah bro you dont want to do that, texting her twice in a row because she doesnt respond will make you seem needy. wait a day or 3, then just add her on facebook and start from there, you look a little needy then, but if she wont text you back then maybe she lost interest and you can give it a last shot like this. |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 9:40 pm ] |
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If they do not text back, I usually wait a couple of days before trying again. If they do not respond again, they are done...NEXT. |
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| Author: | JD Dallas [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 10:02 pm ] |
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texting is for chicks. men shouldn't text. You get a number - you call. if you get a voicemail - say, "looks like I missed you - I'll try ya again later." click. keep the calling initiative. texting KILLS any spark or romance or attraction. It just does. When you call, you demonstrate a ton of good shit - mostly that you aren't afraid to call. when you DO get her on the line, start with, "Hey, I'm really busy, but..." and then TELL her to meet you for a drink or coffee. Something lo-key and casual. take it from there. as a side note - when women text you - which they will once you have them hooked - blow it off. Every once in a while text back, "Busy - talk later". that's it. www.modernmalelifestyle.com JD |
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| Author: | Cowboy_09 [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 10:43 pm ] |
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Quote: texting is for chicks.
Dude that is money. You are right. So far the text convo was like this.men shouldn't text. You get a number - you call. if you get a voicemail - say, "looks like I missed you - I'll try ya again later." click. keep the calling initiative. texting KILLS any spark or romance or attraction. It just does. When you call, you demonstrate a ton of good shit - mostly that you aren't afraid to call. when you DO get her on the line, start with, "Hey, I'm really busy, but..." and then TELL her to meet you for a drink or coffee. Something lo-key and casual. take it from there. as a side note - when women text you - which they will once you have them hooked - blow it off. Every once in a while text back, "Busy - talk later". that's it. www.modernmalelifestyle.com JD (reffering to the convo we had ) So what do you think ?i bought her glasses, boots and some matching wellies. x HER: that sounds really good. Sorry we werent much help! x ME: ha. Worst personal shoppers ever! Did you buy anything cool or are you professional window shoppers? HER: No we were just browsing to see which UGGS to get x At this point i was going to say we should grab coffee. I debated it and decided to build more comfort. I next said. ME: Ugg Boots? Are you sure thats the uniform for a geeky scientist  What did you want to be when you were 7? And dont say princess!!If she texts back again im just going to say lets get coffee in the week, i think im going to lost interest otherwise? |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:26 pm ] |
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Quote: texting is for chicks.
I agree that it shows good stuff like you aren't afraid to call. But there are quite some women (read this on the forum here before a couple of times and heard it from female friends) that don't have the balls to answer a call from a guy they've just met. A quote I remember from a guy posting here was the girl texting him back after his first call , but not answering it "sorry I don't do phone conversations with someone I don't know"texting KILLS any spark or romance or attraction. It just does. When you call, you demonstrate a ton of good shit - mostly that you aren't afraid to call. If your 'text game' is tight, you can get it done too. |
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| Author: | carlosxuma [ Tue Jan 19, 2010 5:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I used to think that... |
I used to say the same thing - just friggin call her. But here's the reality, folks. Women TEXT. It's a way for her to feed her overwhelming preoccupation with her own thoughts with the delusion that she can send little messages brain-to-brain with other people without the messy nonsense of actual communication. Text skills ARE necessary. I used to HATE texting. Now it's a great tool to keep up the energy. When a woman is not around you, you lose the ability to keep up the attraction energy. That's what you can do with texting. You're keeping her from forgetting about you, and using a tool that is hard to fuck up. Sending an occasional message like "You're bad... I need to stay away from you..." is VERY effective if you time it correctly. I cover this in my How to talk to women program, btw. Texting doesn't kill attraction - unless you start using it like a chick would. Guys use texting as a way to tease and provoke. And remember, the more you leave her hanging without a response - the better. CX |
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