what's your first language?

but you PUA crowd may give as good advices.
i have some confusions. it's likely this is caused by some seriously achieved fellow PUAs applying their tactics which accidentally involved confusing me as a part of the game.

anyway, this had happened twice recently, given that i don't frequent bars, it seem to be enough to be thought of as a pattern.

it's quite simple, but i am not enough of a womanizer to understand what's going on.
i walk into a bar, sit down for a few drinks, watching or not really watching the games.
after a while, some blond girl approaches with a guy by her side, who claims to be her bf (i only half believe this). the guy will then tell me she thinks i am cute or hot or whatever. and try to hook her up with me. she would be confused, or reluctant. she would then show me some boobs maybe, a kiss on the cheek or mouth. but it doesn't go anywhere. after a few drinks together, we part our ways.

i wonder what is going on? i am in my early 30s, and have heard about there are swingers out there. but in my cases, they were college girls and young dudes. don't think they need such spices to have good sex.
anyone experienced in this area to explain me some logic behind these events?
i will be really grateful.

also, i am attractive for asian, but i wouldn't say i hold a lot of power over the white chicks. so blonds hitting me up actively makes me think maybe i appear rich? anyway.

my first post (besides the intro one), hope it's not off the topics. thanks for reading and replying!

and the point for improving my PU skills will be: could I have made it happen? how to win over the chick in such a case to be willing to come back to my place/hotel room?

but you PUA crowd may give as good advices.
i have some confusions. it's likely this is caused by some seriously achieved fellow PUAs applying their tactics which accidentally involved confusing me as a part of the game.

anyway, this had happened twice recently, given that i don't frequent bars, it seem to be enough to be thought of as a pattern.

it's quite simple, but i am not enough of a womanizer to understand what's going on.
i walk into a bar, sit down for a few drinks, watching or not really watching the games.
after a while, some blond girl approaches with a guy by her side, who claims to be her bf (i only half believe this). the guy will then tell me she thinks i am cute or hot or whatever. and try to hook her up with me. she would be confused, or reluctant. she would then show me some boobs maybe, a kiss on the cheek or mouth. but it doesn't go anywhere. after a few drinks together, we part our ways.

i wonder what is going on? i am in my early 30s, and have heard about there are swingers out there. but in my cases, they were college girls and young dudes. don't think they need such spices to have good sex.
anyone experienced in this area to explain me some logic behind these events?
i will be really grateful.

also, i am attractive for asian, but i wouldn't say i hold a lot of power over the white chicks. so blonds hitting me up actively makes me think maybe i appear rich? anyway.

my first post (besides the intro one), hope it's not off the topics. thanks for reading and replying!

and the point for improving my PU skills will be: could I have made it happen? how to win over the chick in such a case to be willing to come back to my place/hotel room?

1) The guy could be pimping her ! Lol !

possible
not likely

2) We haven't seen you so a picture would help. But May be they find you non threatning and were just fooling around with you. - Its all about the vibes you give people in an interaction.