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| Author: | cn_bn [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 5:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Problem while in groups |
Well i sometimes have the following problem, im in a gorup chatting, and someone suddenly says "Cristian(me) please dont speak so much, you are making us look bad" ironically or some stuff like that. I know i try to avoid staying withouth saying anything, but sometimes it happens. What could be a good comeback for that? I thought of some, but they would make me look even worse. Any ideas? |
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| Author: | NAB [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 6:55 pm ] |
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Maybe reply with something on the lines of 'Well I'm sorry, I thought you guys were interested in my stories.' Now look at the girls / target and say right after the other line 'Am I boring you guys or do you want me to continue?' Now, if they're interested they'll beg you to go on (I think). If not, then you're probebly having a hard time being interesting to the HB as you are already talking for a long period (why else would they state that you're talking so much?). If the HB does want you to continue, but the guy(s)/other girl(s) don't. Then it's a good way to isolate her. 'Alright, let me just talk to [target's name] then.' or whatever. Then take her to a comfortbuilding site. You could also try to get them talking, and natuarally take the convorsation over so you can continue the game. Or try to provoke the HB to tell a story? - Not sure if these are that usefull. As you interrupt your own game. Though you do show interest in them (HB's friends) aswell. Which makes her more comfortable I guess. Cheers, NAB |
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| Author: | cn_bn [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 7:31 pm ] |
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No, sorry i think i didnt explain my self very well. Sometimes i dont talk at all, and someone in the group says "please dont talk that much" ponting out im not talking and the other kinda laugh. It makes me look bad. I cant find a good comeback, or make it backfire on him. Thats what i mean. |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 10:04 pm ] |
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then.. well start talking before that, prevent it from happening or say somehting like "hmm... I was just think of higher matters, like what underwear should I wear tommorow" |
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| Author: | cn_bn [ Fri Jan 15, 2010 2:22 am ] |
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I know, but sometimes it just happens. Im aware of it though. Any others? |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Fri Jan 15, 2010 8:35 am ] |
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Quote: "hmm... I was just think of higher matters, like what underwear should I wear tommorow"
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| Author: | cn_bn [ Fri Jan 15, 2010 4:09 pm ] |
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OK, thanks for the tips! |
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