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| Author: | Dorian_Gray [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | All gone wrong, out of nowhere! |
I understand that this is a legthy post, but id be very greatful for any help... Ive been working on a girl who is part of a friend group whom i see about every 2 weeks on average. When I first met her I managed attract her and get some huge IOIs off her, buying me drinks, couldnt stop touching me etc... When I next saw her I attracted her a little but then realised it was definatly time for some comfort, so I did a few routines, such as the cube, which went down so well at the time it was amazing. That night she also mentioned she had a boyfriend but actually told me she didnt like him... later she asked me to walk her home (i did after making her work for it) and then she text me that night and has emailed me a few times since. So tonight I see her again, i'd noticed her emails had been testing me to see if i was untrust worthy/ a player. so i decided to play it a little cooler this time, a lot of normal talking to build comfort because i didnt want to come across as a player. she then made fun of the cube and all the routines id done last time which had perviously worked well, i brushed it off as best i could but from then onwards she seemed really cold and disinterested... What do you think has gone wrong? im really unsure as she seems to have some sort of guy in her life, whether or not its that serious im not sure... but has she gotten over the intial attraction now and ive become a bit boring? maybe i should have moved things along sooner. Most importantly, what to do next? return to get some attraction back or what? thanks for any insight you can give me. |
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| Author: | AFC_MATT [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:26 am ] |
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man too be completely honest you actually wasted 2 perfectly good chances of a kiss close she even got you to walk her home and you totally whimped out seems like she wanted you to lead and you burned , all u can do is build up your game with the Valuable experience youve just gained and move on. . youll know next time. . hope i didnt offend you just keeping it real , we all learn through our failures |
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| Author: | Dorian_Gray [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:35 am ] |
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Hey, i do see where your coming from, my only issue is that when i was walking her home, i had the intention to k-close, but mid way through walking her for no reason she did the whole freak out and be cold thing. my guess is shes having the same thoughts too but then totally freaks out when she remembers this other guy. I really need advice on where to go with this next, shes real hot, I really need to avoid becoming an obiter thats what two of my friends are to her already. |
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| Author: | AFC_MATT [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:43 am ] |
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ok what you need to do is drop her , as mystery and niel strauss wrote you gotta be willing to loose a girl to see if you can gain her . . sounds kinda like she has insecurity issues that she really needs to resolve. its not worth the hastle man |
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| Author: | richyritch [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 2:42 am ] |
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The only thing I can see you doing other than dropping her is having her see you game other girls and DISMISS her. Then tell her it's too bad she has a boyfirend cuz you too would have fun together. You're not the type of guy that makes girls cheat. Too bad lol. |
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| Author: | AFC_MATT [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 2:46 am ] |
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yeah you could so punish her that would be class .. try that first... lol |
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