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Author:  meti [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:03 am ]
Post subject:  Crazy situation that i need expert help with!!!!!!!

Hey guys i've read alot of pua books but i'm stuck for what to do in a crazy situation
this is gonna be quite long a descriptive just because i dying to find an answer to my problem.

so to begin with I knew this girl back from language school which i had a huge crush on at the time she was my sister's best friend( my sister new of the crush because were extremely close) and back then i was a huge afc i was always shy to talk to her and got nervouse when she came close around me. any how my family moved out to another city and i eventually had forgotten the girl and started to mature went to highschool, interacted with many girls went out clubbing alot and had alot of girls as friends. So when highschool was done and i reached university i met up with this girl back from elementary school randomly she looked sexier than ever, and she remebered me and even offered to go for lunch and gave me her number. She decided to call up my sis the next day (after no communication for a good 2 years) to tell her that she had met me and that i was good looking. anyways so i decided to make the move and started to plan things out with her, she kept flopping out on me for reasons like school work, plans with her friends and curfews and everytime i got pissed and thought i'd just quit becuase i got rejected she would text me back saying stuff like "hey you!! i really want to see you, or where have you been" and it was just like a hook that got me back to her to face even more rejection, so i called it off with her after a chain of hooks on and off and told her that if she was goin to keep flopping then i don;t want to hang out with her anymore becuase i hated playing games like this, everything went sour and we lost touch with each other for about 6 months. next year come my sister came to my university and she became best friends with this same girl again, we've gotten to know each other better now since she chills at my place alot cuz of my sister(me and my sister live together) but it's so hard because I am extremely attracted to her and the more i get to know her the more i fall for her, thing is she is still a virgin and she has strict parent becuase she's arab muslim and if i ask her out it's gonna ruin her friendship not just with me and but with my sister also everything is gonna be so awkward if she says no. I catch her at times glancing at me when were at my palce and when i look at her she smiles back, but i have kept it to a minimum with her just a teasing friendship relationship. so my question now is what should i do? pursue going for her and making things awkward if they go bad(due to many flops that i took as a signal for rejection) or remaining as friends with her and deal with the pain of wanting more?

Author:  AFC_MATT [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:16 am ]
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man sounds like you gotta bad case of oneitus , you should be with more women youll soon realise that this flower is no different to any other and youll move on . . its tough but least your head wont be wrecked with the flakes she keeps giving you. hope ive been somewat helpfull?

Author:  Jezebel [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 2:45 pm ]
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If you think it is worth it, go for it. It's that simple

Jez

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