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Author:  tomlove [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 9:20 pm ]
Post subject:  we flirt at school... but what next?!
ok so ive been messing about with this girl at school... i've known her 4 months. i'm 18... she is year below (17)... we mess about... play fight, but no serious connection. i said this to her via msn

Tom
not happy with you
19:31Phoebe
no change there then
19:31Tom
exactly thats the problem
we have too much in common
how can we talk properly if all we wanna do is annoy each other
?
well
its more you annoying me but you know

19:32Phoebe
well we just wont talk anymore
19:33Phoebe
haha problem solved
19:33Tom
not really
itd get pretty boring not talking to each other
19:34Phoebe
how come?
19:35Tom
because there is some attraction going on
its fun to talk, just not fight all the time
19:43Tom
hmm so you just wanna play fight all the time huh
19:44Phoebe
yep
19:44Tom
this isnt going to work then
id like to say something worth saying once in a while
20:28Tom
forget it hun i was asking too much from you
i understand
20:29Phoebe
there you go again, confusing the hell out of me
20:29Tom
you don't know what your confused about!
20:30Phoebe
yes i do, everything you say confuses me
i dont understand
20:31Tom
well understand this

20:31Phoebe
ok
20:32Tom
we should talk properly without any distractions. we've known each other like 4 months
and seems longer than that but yet we don't talk... i know hardly anything about you
but i want to
20:33Phoebe
your getting very meaningful
haha
i dont do serious
20:33Tom
im not a very serious person!
but tbh play fightings good and fun but theres more to life than that
im not asking you out or anything like that
im just saying we talk
20:34Phoebe
ok my dear lol
20:35Tom
good
im glad that was easy to understand
and btw you have to take me out for at least 4 dates before i get serious
so hands off
20:36Phoebe
haha well you may be waiting a while then lovely
20:36Tom
who says im going to wait around?!

20:36Phoebe
i dont know really haha
20:37Tom
right pheebs im gonna fly
NO KISSES
20:37Phoebe
ok byeeeee
no kisses!
20:38Tom
phoebe you cant say that and actually want to
your very incongruent

20:38Phoebe
incongryent?
back confused again
20:39Tom
theres a difference between being confused and not knowing a word

byee
and i dont want you and shelly picking on me tommorow
your like some crazy tag team out to get me
20:40Phoebe
well its gonna happen
haha
20:40Tom
ill be ready
oonagi


i have problems deciphering this. she clearly doesnt want a relationship per say. but we have fun at school. i've asked her to the cinema before knowing it was a bad move and she didnt want to go. what do i do? i wanted to go out with this girl, its obviously not an option but how do i progress when i only see her at college?
Author:  Misfit [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:55 pm ]
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i think your getting hung up on her. DON'T! next time she tries to play fight with you, don't play along, even better goof around with other girls. It seems that you lost her a little when you took things serious. If ignoring her a little draws her in a little, take it funny, joke sexually and make it apparent that you want her and what for. But not until she comes to you. If she feels burnt by you ignoring her, she will ask you why. tell her that you only play fight with Chuck Norris now or something witty, that can easy make her laugh. But for sure don't try to have a serious conversation about you and her until the first hook up. Otherwise build sexual tension until then-Misfit
Author:  tomlove [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 7:39 pm ]
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thanks mate really helped. tom x
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