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| Author: | Teethgrinder32 [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 8:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Anger Display |
Hi guys, Question for you. What do you think of display of anger with chicks you might be gaming? Do you think it comes across as needy or a display of alpha dominance and knowing what you want? In my case, there is chick I'm gaming and things seem to be going well. I went to funeral today of a family friend who died quite tragically. The girl in question didn't ask how I am etc. If it was a friend that did that, I would let them know, knowing the fact that it was off my chest and everything would be cool. I'm debating whether to tell her that I was pretty pissed off or just let it go. I can understand that getting angry over small things would be pretty AFC but I think I have a valid reason in this case? No? Thoughts? |
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| Author: | Brah [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 9:02 pm ] |
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So you're angry that she didn't ask "how are you"? And you want to know if you should tell her that you're angry? I'd be annoyed at someone if they told me they were angry b/c I didn't ask that. instead of acting angry at her, maybe you can use it as a chance to connect with her, talk deep to her and let her know how the death has made you feel and affected you. I think if you talked to a girl about your feelings regarding the death (instead of your anger at her), she would respond well to that. |
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| Author: | Teethgrinder32 [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 9:08 pm ] |
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Not a general "how are you" . . . I guess I expected some kind of emotional support considering the situation. . am a bit peed of because I didn't get it. I do see your point. . Thanks |
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| Author: | nofear [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 9:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Anger Display |
Quote: Hi guys,
I think you have a reason to be upset, but whether or not you voice your dissapointment depends on the worth of the individual you're upset with. If the person in question is not worth shit to you, then just move on and leave it alone. If they are worth shit to you, then voice your dissapointment while not actually "displaying" anger. In other words, keep a cool head. I learned through experience that when you "display" anger, people don't receive what it is your saying and they will show you less respect (than the respect you're actually demanding) as a result.
Question for you. What do you think of display of anger with chicks you might be gaming? Do you think it comes across as needy or a display of alpha dominance and knowing what you want? In my case, there is chick I'm gaming and things seem to be going well. I went to funeral today of a family friend who died quite tragically. The girl in question didn't ask how I am etc. If it was a friend that did that, I would let them know, knowing the fact that it was off my chest and everything would be cool. I'm debating whether to tell her that I was pretty pissed off or just let it go. I can understand that getting angry over small things would be pretty AFC but I think I have a valid reason in this case? No? Thoughts? |
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| Author: | Bormad [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:08 pm ] |
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She dont seem like a nice person. I would move on and forget her in my opinion but im quick to move on from things :\ |
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