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| Author: | tomlove [ Wed Dec 30, 2009 12:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | STALE MATE |
This is what I call stale mate: Day Gamed a girl that goes to my college. See her at school everyday, so the gaming is hard... i keep things alive tho. we have obviously connected on some level. i call her, text her we have a good time. it comes too meeting up and shes busy, genuinely has good excuses. A few fays have passed. Stale Mate. What would a pua do in this situation. its now the holidays so cannot see her unless we arrange something which is turning out rather difficult. do i wait until term time... or keep asking her out?! Songwriter |
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| Author: | Mister Boss [ Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:53 am ] |
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It all depends on what you want. If you want to take things slowly and maybe keep her as a future friend, you can wait and spend some more time with her in school or other public places and build more comfort and rapport. From there you can transition to a "date setting" where to two of you will meet in private. I don't like the above mentioned method though. I hate wasting my time on a girl who isn't willing to take things forward at my pace. Besides, you may end up in the dreaded friend zone. So I like to use a higher risk method. If she rolls with it, I know things are going the right direction. If not, I move on. So what do I mean with a high risk method? Anything that pulls the sex forward. Try to get sexual with her ASAP. It could be anything... from sending a sexual text to slapping her ass in a teasy way. Judging on how she reacts, you know where you are with the girl. Good luck, |
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| Author: | tomlove [ Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:15 pm ] |
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well the reason she didnt see me b4 xmas was cus she had a date with a guy... and i didnt see her over xmas... on new year i rang her and spoke for ages obvs connecting... even had a long chat with her mom on the phone... but i dont know wheres shes at. we are cool but im not sure if shes seeing someone .  argh
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