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| Author: | tay1392 [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 3:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Do you have to be TALL for success in the game of PUA? |
This has been bugging me for... let's see here... Oh yeah the 17 years of my Life!!! Mystery is fuckin 6'5''! I am 5'9'' - 5'10'' !! (5' 11") If I wear boots Mystery's presence alone reeks confidence because of his physical "towering over everyone else" there's a possibilty I will grow more, I mean I am only 17, and have like no facial hair. and I am good looking and thin which is good... but the height thing kills me. how do I get over this!? |
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| Author: | Jav [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 3:56 am ] |
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5"6 here, 19 years old. This doesn't bother me AT ALL. I'm not gonna change those facts. Because I can't. So instead of beating myself up for something I got now power over, I chose to change what I could: My mindset. I fully accepted anything I couldn't change. (be sure not to make it an excuse to don't change at all) "haha, atleast you won't see me stealing your gf  "positivity and optimism is key |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 4:38 am ] |
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Dude you need to work on your inner game. Hight helps to get girls, but it is no way a fure sure thing. If it was I would have a Rolodex full of girl numbers right now due to my height as I am 6'6". And dude for most girls you be on the "tall" side anyway seeing that most girls are around 5'5". |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 4:47 am ] |
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Height, like good looks or wealth, can *help*, but lacking it won't *hurt* as long as you are confident and all the rest of it. Mystery is super tall in his heels and shit, but Style is shorter than you and he does pretty well for himself! Don't let yourself have any limiting beliefs about any physical attribute. Just be well dressed and groomed, do the best with what you have, and work on inner game, body language and, most importantly - get out there and game! |
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| Author: | papa bear [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 6:30 am ] |
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I'm 5'8 and have a pretty impressive resume. No, height doesn't matter. I'm assuming it helps but I'm doing fine. |
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| Author: | octopus [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 1:50 pm ] |
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5"6 here. Height is only an issue if you make it one so think tall and you will come across as tall. Like others have said you have no control over you're height so just have a more possitive mindset and everything should fit into place 
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| Author: | Johnny B. [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 2:02 pm ] |
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Since its pretty impossible for you to change your height, you have two choices: A) You can stay home alone, worry about it and let it dominate your life OR B) You can accept it as a part of you, deal with it and push foward not giving a fuck Your road, your choice. [ Johnny B ] |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 2:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Do you have to be TALL for success in the game of PUA? |
Quote: This has been bugging me for... let's see here...
Believe me at 5'9 or 5'10 you are doing well. I know guys who are about 5'2 that are better with this stuff than I am with women. Oh yeah the 17 years of my Life!!! Mystery is fuckin 6'5''! I am 5'9'' - 5'10'' !! (5' 11") If I wear boots Mystery's presence alone reeks confidence because of his physical "towering over everyone else" there's a possibilty I will grow more, I mean I am only 17, and have like no facial hair. and I am good looking and thin which is good... but the height thing kills me. how do I get over this!? Mystery is just a freak like that! And I mean that in the most respectful way possible!
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| Author: | DonPua [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 6:26 pm ] |
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I am small and yesterday a group of 6 hot girls where throwing themselves at me. And I did absolutely nothing. I didn't look at them, I didn't open them, I wasn't even dancing, I did absolutely nothing. And I don't look like a Don Juan either. I was just being confident. Stop your limiting beliefs. Go out, be social and be cool. Most importantly: HAVE CONFIDENCE. The more confidence you display, the more succes you will get with women. It is all about CONFIDENCE. |
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| Author: | tay1392 [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 7:33 pm ] |
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well thanks for the responses guys, you are all right. I need to accept myself, my average height and work on my confidence. Thanks a bunch. |
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| Author: | expat_of_love [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 11:40 pm ] |
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Can't change height. Does it matter? Hell, yes. I am living proof of that, but why screw yourself over with self-doubt and hate? Deal with it. Don't deny it, but just embrace the fact that you are short. Everyone is fucked up in his own way. Don't focus on what might make you inferior to others. You are doomed if you do. |
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| Author: | Bloodmuffin [ Wed Dec 30, 2009 12:51 am ] |
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Height is only a problem if she is signifigantly taller than you and you're trying to fuck while standing up. |
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| Author: | Marc [ Wed Dec 30, 2009 1:27 am ] |
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Neil Strauss is 5'6 and I bet he could pick up a girl under any of the tall good looking guys you know. I was at a club last weekend where I saw a 5'4 inch guy making out with a 5'7 - 5'8 inch girl. Talk about pick up !! |
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| Author: | richyritch [ Wed Dec 30, 2009 3:58 am ] |
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Oh my best friend who is 6'6" would love this topic. Listen brother! I'm 5'7" on a good day. I'm not gonna say how i overcame it by what girls hit on me to prove a point. I will tell you what helped me. First I figure if I'm 5'7' tall, i'm going to be just as wide. So I got jacked which is easier for shorter guys. Mystery is tall, but he is thin and trust me when I say I don't have to work that hard to get attention. Dress against the trends, but claasy and toward your personality. I noticed alot of guys shopping at buckle and these affliction shirts and button ups are the current trend. I liked it but it kinda isn't me. I noticed what women really love on TV one night that attract women, dress like you have money. See I'm Italian and we're known for wearing flashy clothes. So I went a little old school and got some fitted button up shirts and wore some dress pants, dress shoes and a very nice watch. I havent been approached that much since the breakup with the ex wife. Trust me when I say when you dress like an upscale man instead of going with the trend, you will feel 6'6". |
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| Author: | Medic [ Wed Dec 30, 2009 4:35 am ] |
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Yo, height has NOTHING to do with it. It's about your attitude and your balls, how you present yourself. I'm 5'8" and I think that I do pretty well... Oh yeah, just my opinion, don't worry about Mystery, he's kind of a douche. Just sayin... |
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