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| Author: | Rezzy [ Mon Dec 21, 2009 7:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Wanna get it off my chest.. |
Wassup. A girl and I recently decided to just be friends due to the sexual tension being awkward every time I hit on her. I currently have this f*&@ed up urge to tell her how I actually felt about me falling for her to get it off my chest. But I am conflicted; My heart wants to tell her but my PUA teachings tell me to leave it alone. The reason to this is I feel I'm gonna lose any chance to get with her as I believe she was definatly sexually attracted to me at first. Even though that boat has most likely sailed. Aren't chicks all about feelings? Dare I tell her? or leave it alone. Some experienced PUA advise would be apprectiated. |
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| Author: | Bormad [ Mon Dec 21, 2009 7:33 am ] |
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It seems to me you have been put into the friend zone by a girl you had a chanc e with. Your best to try and figure out why you got put into this zone thinking about such things as kino escalation and building rapport. In regards to your specific case your best leaving it alone. You can try and freeze her out by not talking to her for a bit and see if you can get out of the friend zone. Good luck |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Mon Dec 21, 2009 2:17 pm ] |
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Basically what Bormad said. It's not impossible to escape the friendszone, just not that easy. Freeze her out a little, don't seek contact, make the times you see her a 'rare occasion". When you DO see her, do it in a good environment, like a party or bar. don't be too 'friend-ish', be cocky/funny, tease her, and kino her a LOT. When you talk to her, triangle-gaze, match the speed of your words/choice of words to hers. Be seductive, not a friend. If she starts talking about too much personal stuff (or if she complains about her life), subtly change the subject. Best of luck bro, Chillburg |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Mon Dec 21, 2009 4:07 pm ] |
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Quote: Basically what Bormad said.
Very good but you forgot something ... hit on other girls when she is around. Make her jealous. Women respond great to jealousy It's not impossible to escape the friendszone, just not that easy. Freeze her out a little, don't seek contact, make the times you see her a 'rare occasion". When you DO see her, do it in a good environment, like a party or bar. don't be too 'friend-ish', be cocky/funny, tease her, and kino her a LOT. When you talk to her, triangle-gaze, match the speed of your words/choice of words to hers. Be seductive, not a friend. If she starts talking about too much personal stuff (or if she complains about her life), subtly change the subject. Best of luck bro, Chillburg |
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