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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 9:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Woman are body-language speciaists!!! |
This has happened to me time after time,despite me being a seasoned sargist. I should be over this already since Im a lover of inner-game. I was sarging an HB6 & 3 qrtz.-a librarian. It went smooth as hell(as I thought),firting bacc & forth. Then she short circuited me when she asked,"Why are you so nervous"? I said,"what,hell no"!! But I just sensed that she knew it was bull shit! I was nervous(approach Anxiety) within 1st. 5 min. but I never figured that she'd have picced up on it. And the damn girl is only 18 years old. I figured only a seasoned MILF would be able to read those BL give aways!!! But as TD said(I think I was him),girls have been manufacturing techniques since age 12 which make them able to detect guys intentions. [/b] |
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| Author: | Human Freak [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 10:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hmm |
Perhaps it was just a shittest? The posibility that she just wanted to test you is quite high, espesially in the nightclub. If it was just a test, then i guess i would come back with something like "I am?" Looked up like a am thinking or analyzing the feeling and said something like "Huh strange i really am a bit exited". Don't know if thats good, just came with it straight up. Let me know what you think. Human Freak. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Mon Dec 21, 2009 12:28 am ] |
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Lol,Im feeling your response to the nervous question. Any respose among those line would be great(yours). Reason I say that is that too many times,guys succ up to women in order to friend their way in(which doesn't work). It takes real men to short circuit a hot chic by saying the unpredictable. When the target asked why am I nervous, I should've been like,I am ...blah,blah,blah. No chic would expect that a guy would (false) disqualify himself like that. Instead,I caught the beta-male bug but saying"Nah,hell no!!! Good advice though. |
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| Author: | Human Freak [ Mon Dec 21, 2009 12:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Rereply |
Ah ye i get what you mean, and i totally agree. Like the best thing to do if you get shittested is just ignore it and keep talking, that would really confuse her thoughts. But of course, you were there and you know the situation better than me. But i also think it depends where in the seduction this happened. In the begining its probably best to just ignore it and keep talking. If you already having a connection and both are being more personal, its may be smart to show that you also have a soft side admitting to be a bit exited, and cover up with "but i am fun" or something of that kind. Hope it made sense to you, english is not my first language. Anyways good luck next time, good thing is that you are now more prepared and know how to deal with it. Hume Freak. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:19 pm ] |
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For English to not be your first language,you damn sure write it good. I get what you saying in your views. |
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| Author: | Ciornia [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 10:17 pm ] |
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Quote: It takes real men to short circuit a hot chic by saying the unpredictable. When the target asked why am I nervous, I should've been like,I am ...blah,blah,blah. No chic would expect that a guy would (false) disqualify himself like that.
Right on, k-loc -- I love to take the opposite approach to what the girl is expecting. Something like: "Yeah, I am. You're very perceptive -- I like that." And then, looking around furtively and with a big smile on your face: "The cops are after me. If they track me down, you have to promise to hide me." Pause to give her a chance to react, and then you say: "But if they catch me, you'll have to come visit me in prison and sneak in a file baked inside a cake." And, if you feel comfortable taking things to a higher sexual frame, you can add, with a sly grin: "And you know what they say about how hot conjugal visits can be."
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| Author: | figureitout [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 11:08 pm ] |
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just cause one girl read you as nervous doesn't mean all women are that good. i think it's not a good belief to think like all girls have these psychic abilities to read guys motives and body langauge and can see through us. I've had so many girls tell me that they thought i was confident when really i had just developed good body langauge and was so freaken insecure inside. At the same time sometimes my anxiety would show. My voice has cracked and my lips quivered. Of course i've been blown out because of someone sensing my nervousness, but sometimes i still managed to pull the girl. So accept it and push through it! |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Wed Dec 23, 2009 1:24 am ] |
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figureitOut & Ciornia,both of yall got great points. Thanks for the props Ciornia(on my perspective). FigureitOut made a point too which comes down to exceptions to the rules. I guess women may misjudge at times. |
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| Author: | driftwood [ Mon Dec 28, 2009 8:27 pm ] |
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I'd be willing to bet that if you had some video footage of yourself during that sarge, you would EASILY be able to tell that you were acting nervous. Girls aren't mind readers as figureitout has already said. It's very difficult to be aware of exactly what body language you are putting out but it's usually pretty easy to read body language from somebody else. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Mon Dec 28, 2009 11:29 pm ] |
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I didnt know Figureitout was a mind reader(lol). Anyway,great advice guys |
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