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Author:  Taker10 [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  HB9 need advice
So some background info:

Theirs this HB9 at my highschool. She is class president and Varsity cheerleader. I had never said more then 4 or 5 words to her before. Until a couple weeks ago when she IM's me on Facebook. We talk for a bit and then she gives me her number and asks me to text her because she is going to lay in bed. I wait about an hour and then I text. Ever since then I have not once started the text convo and she texts me every other day. (Bare in mind that I am not in her crowd)

Now last night she IM's me again. Just to tell me she's going to bed and she will text me so I do this:

HB9- Heyy
Me- I knew you were going to text me
HB9- Because i told you? lol
Me- No theirs definitely some other reason
HB9- Oh yeah?
Me-Yeah
HB9-What is it?
Me-My boyish charm
HB9- Yeah your boyish charm and your good looks ;)
Me- Your pretty good looking yourself
HB9-Thanks :) Havent felt to hott lately though
Me- Fooled me
HB9- Thanks :)) but howd you know you never see me?
Me- I know these things
HB9-I guess im ok with a stalker then :) Im gonan go to bed but itd be nice if you text me tomorrow :)

My question is should I text back early in the day or wait until later in the evening?
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 8:22 pm ]
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Whats up Taker10. It funny how she tried to play you or neg you about being a stalker(lol). It would've been nice I you'd said that to her.

Let me put it like. Since she told you to text her tomorrow,that alone should make you not text her at all tomorrow. It's subtle test on her part to see if she' gotten you already. You need to be unpredictable. She's expecting a text some time tomorrow,so text her the following day-simple. Never let the target thinks that she got you tied down.
Author:  Taker10 [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 8:36 pm ]
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Thanks for the reply and the advice k-loc.

I was thinking about neging her about the stalker thing but I thought that since we exchanged flirty hints about our looks that the convo should end. To keep her thinking. I'm sure she had to of lied in bed for a bit thinking about the convo.
Author:  mR.e [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 8:53 pm ]
Post subject:  not
Hello

not a bad convo at all, she is obviously displaying interest towards you (hope you realize some guys honestly dont sometimes), but i feel that you could have handled it a little differently to keep on top of the convo and a little more in control. the boyish charm was perfect, telling her she is good looking was good aswell but after that you gave a little to much compliment when maybe if you threw in a neg it would have kept you more ontop of the convo if you get what i mean. text her tomarrow, but in the evening. she might text you before tho. maybe some something like "well i guess im texting you now, but i really thought you would crack first and text me ha ha." something along those lines. and as far as you two not seeing her around, set up something to see each other

goodluck mate
mR.e
Author:  Taker10 [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 9:12 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice mR.e!

I will keep the trying to stay on top advice in mind.

Sorry i got a little confused there. Should I text her this evening(Sunday) or Monday evening?
Author:  papa bear [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 11:09 pm ]
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She's obviously into you (for now) but you def have to keep on top of the convo. I always learned to never give an undeserved compliment. What I mean by that is don't give her a compliment just because she gave you one first. You just gotta keep in mind that you are totally in control of the situation and if you play it right you will be gold. I would ask her out but something very casual so it doesn't seem like a date.

Maybe something like "hey I was going to grab a coffee from this cool cafe with my buddy but he flaked on me you should come with me."

or

something along the lines of "Hey me and a group of friends are going to (fill in the blank) you should tag along."

This keeps it casual and it shows that you are an awesome guy who is always doing cool things. Two birds with one stone. Keep us posted on how it's going.[/u]
Author:  mR.e [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 11:26 pm ]
Post subject:  well
well i would say text her a little after you feel like you need to, you no as in if you wanted to text her maybe wait longer then you think, she may be thinking the same thing. stick to what she said just do it later then planned, later in the day. if you wait another day its possible she will lose a little interest

mR.e
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