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| Author: | Direct [ Wed Dec 16, 2009 2:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | difficult girl, odds against me, failure not an option, help |
ok heres the situation this girl is in a club with me at school which means i have to see her everyday, if i screw up its awkward and i really dont want to leave this club. the girl is extremely sexy and fit. she is an aggressive girl. she is really insecure about not knowing why guys are nice to her, and using her as a trophy and for sex. now i ACTUALLY like her, not just her looks, although yes DAMN shes sexy. can any of u guys help me with what i can do to help this situation? simple things during practice? attitude? gestures? any advise at all would be appreciated (besides of course move on, i made up my mind already) its not necessarily a rush but i still dont want to waste time |
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| Author: | J-Dub [ Wed Dec 16, 2009 7:51 pm ] |
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OK, First things first, you said she is an aggressive girl. Now, that puts you in an interesting position. How does she view you. Does she view you as an aggressive guy as well or just so-so. Aggressive girls tend to be more attracted to even more aggressive guys. Its like her man-figure. So if you don't fit that bill, you have no chance unless you want to be a cuckholded later on in life (which I think you don't). If you are that aggressive guy, then prove it by asking her out. It may throw her off guard but you never know, she might take you up on the offer. She wants a guy with balls and not a wuss. So act like a man that is in control. If she says no, then brush it off and move on. The one thing a good PUA needs to understand is that you MUST be able to walk away from ANY situation. If you don't then don't pursue the situation. Don't let the fact that she is in your club bother you. If you do, she will play it out in her favor by expecting YOU to leave the group and not her if things go south. Hope this helps. J-Dub |
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| Author: | Tempest7 [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 8:25 am ] |
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Quote: OK,
I fully agree with this. Game her indirectly, but don't be afraid of displaying your interest or being too forward. Show her that you have guts.
Don't let the fact that she is in your club bother you. If you do, she will play it out in her favor by expecting YOU to leave the group and not her if things go south. Hope this helps. J-Dub |
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