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| Author: | Falcony [ Tue Dec 15, 2009 11:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Awkwardness that gets in the way after the approach |
I did some street game and managed to get past some AA, I asked a couple of girls for the time/directions and then approached about 5 girls using situational and direct openers, These were all single girls by themselves, I got a couple of girls in a hurry who chatted for a couple of minutes and then just before I was about to suggest a drink and get their numbers they left. Another girl who used the bf objection, I countered it with something humourous by saying 'well at least you will have something to do when I am not around' she was still talking but it was going nowhere, I should have tried getting her number anyway to see what happened but lost my nerve/felt awkward. The next girl I number closed successfully but she was on her way to a party and did not ask me my name but gave me hers and her number, how is she going to remember me I will text her tommorrow morning but not right now as it would appear too needy. Then there was another girl who was the most interested she lit up when I was talking to her and was on her way to a friend's house, it was going good but decided I did not feel comfortable and wanted to leave because of other people around (strangers - why should I care what they think) and the way I was feeling for some unknown reason and she looked dissappointed that I didn't get her number. Not sure what caused me to feel that way and it is not just approach anxiety but anxiety after the approach that get's in the way and wants to make you feel like leaving and then you regret it because you could do with meeting someone nice and then you blow it and your uncomfortable feelings end up being more important to your own happiness and the girls. Keeps happening over and over even though I have done 1,000s of approaches literally and got laid from street game. I'm not sure what it is and how to stop it happening again. Any clues? |
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| Author: | Jav [ Tue Dec 15, 2009 11:17 pm ] |
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Learn to accept the awkwardness. |
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