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Author:  YellowFever [ Mon Dec 14, 2009 4:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Picking up on a Bartender . . . need help
Went out saturday night got wasted as i was bar hopping. At my final watering hole i saw one of THE finest bartenders.

I started chopping it up with her. . . . end result she just broke up with her GIRLFRIEND. small chit chat went on (i dont remember about what but my friends said we were chatting for like 5 mins).

i said "give me your number" and had my phone out ready to hand her. her reply was "i dont give my number to people i dont know"

so i asked "how do i get to know you?" then she asked if i had a facebook which i dont so i said no.

she then said come into my work and we can chat. i told her its too busy to have a conversation if she only works weekends.

so she said she also works at a dive bar on tuesdays and thursdays (which i also go to).

thats the lay out of whats happened so far . . . how do i seal the deal? next step?
Author:  Bloodmuffin [ Mon Dec 14, 2009 4:13 pm ]
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Get a facebook account! Girls are really into social network sites.

Also bring your friends with you when you go meet her so you don't just linger at the bar waiting for chances to talk to her.
Author:  YellowFever [ Mon Dec 14, 2009 4:33 pm ]
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well im going on tuesday so it shouldnt be too busy in there. but if i go im thinking i go with 2 friends . . . possibly 1 girl (not too attractive though as this chick is bi haha). that way when im chopping it up with her i dont leave my friend hanging dry if i were to go with 1.
Author:  Bloodmuffin [ Tue Dec 15, 2009 5:11 am ]
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Good call and good luck

Facebook really helps if you happen to be an artist and can possibly impress her when she looks around in your photo album.
Author:  StefanLT [ Tue Dec 15, 2009 7:32 am ]
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If you don't have a Facebook account then you are really behind on how people are socializing/communicating and building relationships today. Start there.
Author:  Kas Adam Nova [ Tue Dec 15, 2009 10:25 am ]
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Bring an attractive friend and have a threesome 8) jk.

But yes, if you are going there, bring friends.

Focus on having a good time with your friends if you are there, do not focus on looking good for her, or trying to chat her up. Also, don't tell your friends you want to hook-up with the barmaid, they'll watch you when you end up talking, laugh and shit, it will make things akward.

On a further note, hot bar people get hit on a lot. Do not create a facebook just to get in touch with her. What you should do is pop up in the bars she works now and then with friends (both girls and guys) and have a fun time. She'll notice.

Now personally, I have never hooked-up with a barmaid (atleast not one that I met during workig ;) ) so I could not tell you from personal experience and this is now on my to-do list :P

Best of luck and let us know how everything works out for you!
Author:  YellowFever [ Tue Dec 15, 2009 7:52 pm ]
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ive had a facebook since 2003. i deleted it in november . . . too much drama/bs/stalking/waste of time.

with that said i like to think i am AHEAD of everyone seeing as i was one of the first with an actual FB account and not a laggard.

def not going to reactivate to talk to her as i am not that desperate. in fact i have decided to go back with friends both male and females on fri or sat when she is busy. plus i have a couple DHV stories as to why i couldnt make it to see her today or thurs ;-)

all planned out . . . now it just needs to work.
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