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Revenge ?! ... something I wanted to take of my chest (long)
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Author:  StreetLight [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 1:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Revenge ?! ... something I wanted to take of my chest (long)
OK.. its kind of a long story, and I'm sorry if its not that well organized but here goes..

A couple of years ago I had the worst onitis case ever, I was obsessed, tears and all, but, alas I was just a friend, anyway, in the end we did slept together (was awful, she was my first but anyway) and later I did not see her anymore...

So a couple of years passed, I had a beautiful relationship, and later I got into the game, and now my life is good.

A couple of months ago my onitis found my on facebook, and gave me her number and said if I ever be around we should meet up, and talk about life and shit, coz she missed me as a friend and all. NOW, I felt like she really hurt me, a lot during all the time we were friends.
3 days ago I started a course (for a job) in her city, so I thought that my best revenge would be to make her fall for me, deeply, I wanted to game her.

I don't really want her, coz she hurted me, and it sounds kind mean but truthfully, thats what I wanted.

So I met her for coffee, run a bit of game, told her about body language, I was having a conversation but gaming at the same time, she told me I'm amazing and all. I noticed she has game, well not exactly, she's just SUPER flirty, in everything, I understand now why man fall for her so easily.

by the way, I have to say I'm sorry for the way this post is written again, its bits by bits, but I feel I should really get this off my chest.

anw, her BF didn't want to come to this party so she invited me t come with her, and off course I did.

I was on FIRE, I was gaming everyone, and especially HER. PERFECT game, I even did a pattern on her although I usually don't do this, I want her to think IM HEROIN!! and NOT get me. She was constantly saying shes drunk , I didnt kissed her because I wanted to drive her mad, but she tryed tons of time. I never saw SO much IOI given from one girl, I though that if I just said the word she would get naked.

again, I have to say, she is a maneater, her game is TIGHT, I saw it now and I responded to all the shit test, and always took control.

at some point she told me its not nice of... so I asked whats not nice.. she said
"Youre here just to advirtise yourseld" (I'm a semi profesional magician, and I've been abroad for a while, I came back and the way I advirtise myself is.. well GAME in pubs)
"NO, I'm not, I came her to have fun.."
(then in a silly deep voice)"I came here for you..." -wink-
"DAVID! stop it!"
"stop what"
"youre flirting.."
"YOU are acusing ME in flirting.. tsc tsc.. I'm just enjoying myself, HOW am I flirting"
"In any way possible"
and she gave me a look, don't really know what that look ment
at that point her BF came, and she hugged him and stuff and then went outside to, I think cry, I'm not sure thou, but still it made me feel bad.
I talked to her BF a bit and his a super NICE guy (not in a good way, he's like her bitch or something, but he is nice)

I felt bad about all of it, it was hard for me to talk to other sets I talked to because I felt evryone knew I was gaming them ("youre flirting in any way possible"), later she came back, we all had a couple of drinks and all, said bye, and another girl I met that night gave me a ride to the train station and I went bk home..

so, I'm not sure what to make of all that, but from some reason I really wanted to share this one, what do you guys think?
Author:  JSmooth [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 2:26 pm ]
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I think that you're human. :) She called you out on your shit that you were gaming people and her. You knew what you were doing didnt quite feel right to you in the first place. When this girl called you on it, you felt bad, especially when you saw her boyfriend wasn't some asshole but a genuine descent guy. That's what I think...
Author:  ~Finesse [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 2:37 pm ]
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I found this really funny. For many number of reasons. I would really like to offer advice, or an opinion, would probably be half of each. But I don't think it would come across right.

~Liquid Blend
Author:  Fin [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 8:45 pm ]
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You fell for her ,it didn't work out, you got hurt.... and you felt that you needed venagnce....


ttsssss... you need to check your perspective man.
Author:  Mr. Amador [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 9:05 pm ]
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I'm really into literature now. This story might be beautiful if written properly.

A normal dude might tell you that revenge is no good.

But I'm no normal dude.

Violence is a part of romance. The act of love would be boring without a component of violence.

The only relevant thing I can think of is what spiderman's uncle told him:

"With great power comes great responsability"

But hey, that was just a silly comic book about the geekiest guy ever.

The things of value in life, have value because someone gave value to them.
Author:  StreetLight [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 3:50 am ]
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I found this really funny. For many number of reasons. I would really like to offer advice, or an opinion, would probably be half of each. But I don't think it would come across right.

~Liquid Blend
well, I'm all ears...

overall, I just think I would leave her as it is. In a way I did got my revenge
Author:  Mystical [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 8:35 am ]
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I recently got out of a relationship with a girl that I really, really liked, and she hurt me a lot. At one point after the breakup I wanted to take revenge, so I know how you feel.

But there's a difference between wanting to take revenge and actually doing it. Personally I think that you were being immature. If you wanted revenge, it means that you're still hurt. And making her sad won't solve anything, makes stuff worse in your head.

What you should do is cut contact completely. Actually, if you still feel resentful towards someone, you should just never contact that person again. Well, unless it's a family member or something like that. But a girl? Fuck it.

Sure revenge can be the right thing to do in certain circumstances, but I think it was uncalled for here.
Author:  ~Finesse [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 5:59 pm ]
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Quote:
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I found this really funny. For many number of reasons. I would really like to offer advice, or an opinion, would probably be half of each. But I don't think it would come across right.

~Liquid Blend
well, I'm all ears...

overall, I just think I would leave her as it is. In a way I did got my revenge
Erm, I'm trying to remember what I read now. But It sounds like maybe you were trying to hard, as you mentioned you felt everyone knew like you were gaming them, so if they did, it was likely obvious to everyone especially 'the girl' and this probably didnt come off so great for you. Also, you said that clearly your game was working on her or something, yet you also mentioned she's a really flirty girl, so instead of your game working, maybe she was just being her usual cock tease flirty self. You do sound like you really fell for this girl or something, and I know it sucks, bro. This vengeance thing aint good though, and I'm not exactly one to talk cos I do the exact same thing, I hold life time grudges and dont let shit slide. But, I'm not sitting there letting shit boil and not trying to, its just there, like a little fact in the back of my mind. Don't be set on seeking vengeance though, if she could see thats what you were trying to do, it probably came across real pathetic. No offence. Best way, is to move on, drop all your feelings for her, then will be more likely to get your revenge at some point.



~Liquid Blend
Author:  StreetLight [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 6:35 pm ]
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well, thats what i thought in the first place but then she just came across my path, whatever, this girl is just a headache, and I think I will loose contact before anyone else will get hurt. I did got some satisfaction coz I did felt I can get her...

MOVING ON!!!!.. WOO HOO !!!





damn, there are those women that nothing good can become of meeting them, as the saying goes.. you don't put a healthy head in a sick bad.. (I think its in hebrew)
Author:  SpeXXX [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 8:01 pm ]
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damn, there are those women that nothing good can become of meeting them, as the saying goes.. you don't put a healthy head in a sick bad.. (I think its in hebrew)
*bed :)

Nice going there, although i don't think i would've go out with her after all the things she's done to you.
I actually have a case like and she's too giving me IOI's, trying to set a meeting and stuff, but I barely talk to her and being cold - I just know that nothing good will come out of it, so i prefer not try anything.

Of course revenge is somehow fulfilling but there is and old saying:
"Something of vengeance I had tasted for the first time; as aromatic wine it seemed, on swallowing, warm and racy: its after-flavor, metallic and corroding, gave me a sensation as if I had been poisoned."
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