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| Author: | Alfa JAIME [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 5:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | JUST NEED HELP BADLY(texts and now everything) |
okay so i have this friend that i really like....well to get to the point i have no idea where i messed up it was all good before but now i only get 1 word on replys on texts so its not a conversation if you know what i mean.....(texts) when i see her in person she is amazing so i am good at that but if you want to give me ideas and tips feel free to. So is their a way to fix things from their please write back and/or pm me if need more info from here "please read all so you dont post the same thing more than needed and if i posrt more" |
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| Author: | Wackjacko2001 [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 5:58 am ] |
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There's not much info here but I will give my two cents about texts, in general. If youre asking questions and she's replying with one word replies. That aint cool. To me, it shows low interest (Of course, Im just going on the bits of info here). What works for me: I try to make sure the girl intiates more texts than me. I like her to intiate 3 text convos and then, I will intiate 1. So she might text with three different times in one day and then, if I notice she's not texting me 15 hrs later or next day, I might initiate one. I also like to keep my texts shorter than hers and i dont ask questions unless absolutely necessary. Like even, if Im asking her out, I'll say something like: "It'd be cool if you could come out and hang tonite" or even a command "Come out tonite, Ill be hanging at xxx bar". Everyone's different but I feel too many questions, tend to relay too much interest and puts you in an inferior position, where your waiting on her replies. But it really depends on which kinds of questions your asking. I would also delay responses. If she asks you a question, delay your response for a while if it doesnt require an immediate answer like "How are u doing?", I'd wait a couple hours. If she asks an, even more, tough question she had to work up the nerve to ask like "Hey. Did you want to hang out on Sunday?". I wouldnt respond for like a few hours if she asks me out. Always delay longer than her. If she gets back 10 mins, get back in 20 mins etc. You cant have a perception that you have nothing better to do than text her all day. Texting in general is a little effeminate to begin with. If you can tease and joke around her questions without being straight. That's cool too. In general, I'd keep your texts cool. Like if you showed your texts to the coolest guy you know , he'd be like : ok this is a cool guy and you wouldnt be embarrased at all. Just my two cents.. |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Fri Dec 11, 2009 8:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: JUST NEED HELP BADLY(texts) |
Quote: okay so i have this friend that i really like....well to get to the point i have no idea where i messed up it was all good before but now i only get 1 word on replys on texts so its not a conversation if you know what i mean.....(texts)
Stop texting her at all and make her text you asking whats wrong. Then you answer with one word few times (like "nothing" ,"everything`s cool"...) and if she is inteligent she will get the picture and change her behaviour. If not, when you meet her next time, explain her that you don`t appreciate her texting pattern and if she continues, you will neglect texting communication with her totally.
when i see her in person she is amazing so i am good at that but if you want to give me ideas and tips feel free to. So is their a way to fix things from their please write back and/or pm me if need more info from here |
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| Author: | Alfa JAIME [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 7:39 am ] |
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okay thats what i do.....but i tries refraiming and i thought i did good....but just today i was hangoing out at the mall and she calls out my name so i pretend that i didnt heard her then she comes and gives me a hug.....and just blew me off so awful right infront of my friend......i loved her so i am just loosing hope on getting other girls....i still can cuz right after that i got 4 more but their not the same as her.... 
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 2:31 pm ] |
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Quote: Stop texting her at all and make her text you asking whats wrong. Then you answer with one word few times (like "nothing" ,"everything`s cool"...) and if she is inteligent she will get the picture and change her behaviour. If not, when you meet her next time, explain her that you don`t appreciate her texting pattern and if she continues, you will neglect texting communication with her totally.
i totally agree.... you can't bring up conversation about this , you need her to do it. she's not investing and she thinks she can get away with it.thus in the end you are investing way more. maybe she thinks she's important or something , treat her like she's unimportant treat her like she treats you. but still ... don't completely ignore her , when you meet her you just say a regular '' hi '' like nothing is wrong Freeze her out ..... maybe send a ''sleep well x''one time but don't be active. |
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