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| Author: | 1wickd6 [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 8:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Threw all lessons learned right out the window, HELP! |
So, I’ll make this as brief and to the point as possible. I met a girl a couple of months ago, we started dating about a month after we met, we’re now approx a month and a half in, I guess we made it “official” about a week ago. By official I mean we are now officially boyfriend and gf. Shes 24, im 30. Anyway, everything started off well, I played the game pretty decent and got the response I was looking for. I then completely blew it bad and have continued to blow it bad. By this I mean I am basically smothering her I think. She has her own place and about 3 weeks ago I had a huge falling out with my roommate and have been forced to stay with a friend until I find another place. This friend that Im staying with lives 45 miles from my work and the gf lives about 5 miles from my work. So, with a mixture of convenience and wanting to be with her I ended up staying there for over a week straight and I could just tell that I wore out my welcome and lost all pull as it pertains to having the upper hand or having her wanting to be with me rather than the other way around. So, although she is still very much into me (as far as I can tell) the relationship is exactly where I don’t want it to be, I think of her every waking moment and want to spend as much time with her as possible and as far as I can tell, she doesn’t have that anxiety and doesn’t have me on her mind 24/7 like I do her. That said, I was hoping for some input regarding how to (if even possible at this point) turn this back around. The girl is great and I really don’t want to loose her to something like this. I thought I learned my lesion by pushing a girl away before because Im pretty sure that’s what caused a gf I had a while back to split. So I know im screwin up and I know exactly what I did and am doing wrong, so any help with any/all of this would be greatly appreciated. Hope I provided enough detail. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Bormad [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 8:59 pm ] |
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Your best bet is to lose contact with her for a week or so to gather your thoughts emotions back in place. Only after that do you consider any moves on her. |
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| Author: | neurotico [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 9:48 pm ] |
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