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| Author: | Dielawnn [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 12:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl choosing between me and another guy! Help please |
Ok I have been talking to this HB8 and she likes me now but there is another guy she had her eyes on before I came into the picture. Apparently this guy is trying to date her too and she told me yesterday she was going to have to choose between the two of us within the next month. I need to know where to find the most powerful routines and maybe even some Ross Jeffries-type shit to get her to feel so good around me she chooses me to be with against this other guy she's talking to. What should I do to make sure I'm chosen over him? Any help is appreciated. |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 12:48 pm ] |
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Don`t wait her choose and buy that crap. Just tell her that you are the only option and if she even considers somebody else, then you don`t wan`t her at all. Don`t give her power to choose. If you wait, you are just giving way too much power and it can`t end well for you. Even if she chooses you, she might switch to other guy later because girls don`t won`t week guys. |
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| Author: | Linckia [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 1:08 pm ] |
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ooh I like that answer, with a twist. Tell her you don't want to settle, and unless a girl feels like you are the only one in the world to her, that she is 100% committed to you, you don't want it. Tell her you have options, you don't need to be her "either-or", you can and want to find someone who is crazy about you, because you can. And be careful how you say it--she'll see right through the bravado if you get puppy-dog-ish about it--be very alpha, and tell her you support her need to do this because you care about her and want her to be happy. To tell a girl you like her and yet walk away proudly is very strong, and she will see it as you not needing her, which is even better and intriguing to her. So "fuck you, I don't want you anyway": beta and "thanks for your honesty, and I'm going to choose not to settle for you even though I like you": alpha. |
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| Author: | Marco Polo [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 5:24 pm ] |
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Quote: Marco Polo has returned!!!
Haha, just briefly my friend. Had some questions in PM box so I had to come back to answer. I have extremly busy life in last 10 months so unfortunately have not enough time for forum. But I sneak from time to time 
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| Author: | Mr. Valmont [ Thu Dec 10, 2009 5:55 pm ] |
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By her telling you that she has to choose between you and this other guy, she is clearly trying to make you chase her/fawn over her etc...she wants you to fight to prove you're better than the other guy. DO NOT fall into this trap. As previously stated, play it cool and simply say something along the lines of "I want somebody who's 100% with me and who doesn't have to think twice." Be alpha about it. Let her know you have plenty of options too. Don't do anything like beg, plead, etc...if she ends up choosing the chump over you after this, A) it wasn't meant to be and B) she's an idiot |
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