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I guess its a harder approach as you can very easily go back to being the AFC through being too nice. That tends to be what girls look to avoid and so being alpha is much more effective.
Thanks for your thoughts, Bormad. Much appreciated. In my view, though, being humble is not the same as being too nice. Niceness is a social construct, an artifice; humility is a pure, essential mindset that strips away the ego in favor of recognizing connections that already exist but often go unacknowledged. I agree with Stormy, who has written so eloquently on the idea of shedding the ego, that if you have have a rock-solid inner game -- and to even call it a "game" is to mischaracterize it -- you will be completely coherent (or "congruent," as Stormy and others have put it) in your approach to women, and you will subcommunicate this oneness of mind, body, and spirit in a very powerful way. So I'm inclined to believe that pick-up and humility are not at all incompatible.frame-control-defining-reality-and-bein ... 34530.html
Now I just have to strip away more of my ego
Anyone else want to weigh in on this theme?