She's attracted to me, but feels guilty about her almost-bf.
How can I help her decide?
Definition of almost-bf: A guy she's seeing for some time, and has feelings towards, but both are free to date other people.
Thanks
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| Author: | Mind Hacker [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 11:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Good techniques for helping a girl LJBF her almost-bf? |
She's attracted to me, but feels guilty about her almost-bf. How can I help her decide? Definition of almost-bf: A guy she's seeing for some time, and has feelings towards, but both are free to date other people. Thanks |
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| Author: | Jav [ Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:28 pm ] |
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fuck ljbf-techniques. Eclipse him with your superior game. |
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| Author: | VinceWagner [ Fri Dec 04, 2009 2:33 pm ] |
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Haha... possibly one of my favourite PUA questions I've ever seen! Don't forget the important fact; If it's still only an "almost-boyfriend" then chances are HE will be seeing other girls.. otherwise he'd have sealed off the relationship by now - so she has NO reason to feel guilty. DON'T point this out to her... it'll probably just get her upset thinking about him and that'll never work out.. it'll just heighten any emotional attachment that she has to him, I reckon. BUT it's useful to know. With this in mine try and be casual.. persistent but casual. In other words, you need to subliminally convince her that she wants you more than you want her (and probably more than she wants the other guy). One other thing... I would also go against what most people would say here... don't try and persuade her and you're better than him. You're going to end up in a childish "my dad is better than your dad..." type battle about you and him. |
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| Author: | VinceWagner [ Fri Dec 04, 2009 2:35 pm ] |
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Oh and don't forget... guilt is a sexy emotion. Try to re-frame the way she sees her "guilt". I'm sure you all know what an AMAZING feeling it can be to hold a sexual secret. Try to play that card as much as possible... get her realising that holding you as her little secret will make it even sexier for her... V. |
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