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Author:  phantomspell [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 4:20 am ]
Post subject:  creating attraction with a well known friend?

Hey guys:
I met a girl about 3 years ago. We immediately hit it off. We went out and about a month later we had some of the best sex she ever had. After about 2 months, she moved back to new york. She came back about 6 months ago. She told me she wasn't interested in a boyfriend and says she no long view me romantically, but as her best friend. She is currently dating a old married redneck motherfucker (who calls her slut, whore, bitch, etc) and she hates it. She says she wishes she could control her emotions, and wishes she could fall in love with me again, but still doesn't want to even kiss me. How can I create attraction with someone ive known a while but thinks of me as her "best friend".
Note to snide assholes:
Don't get started about "one-itis"! This is a legitimate question that hasn't been addressed yet by any PUA manuals I've purchased. Please help me out!

Author:  tekryder [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 4:34 am ]
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i feel you on that, esp if shes talkin about this guy making him sound like some asshole, your just gonna hate that shes with him.

Maybe if you freeze her out for a lil bit, like not talk to her for a while and look busy, then just randomly hit her up for some coffee than work on kino.

Author:  phantomspell [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 5:01 am ]
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problem is, we already are touching, NONSEXUALLY. we cuddle all the time, play with each others hair, hug for too long, etc. She would just think it's normal, non-sexual behavior.

Author:  bradjackson [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 7:04 am ]
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My first thought is to tell you to move on. If she's dating a guy like you described and taking his shit. She's got much bigger issues than you realize...deep seeded issues.

I would take this as a hint and move on because she sounds like she'll give you hell. Or worse...you start dating her and then she breaks up with you because you don't bring enough drama like her ex. Some girls feed on that.

That said, my friend Jason King wrote a really good ebook on this subject exactly and you might be interested in checking it out here: http://bit.ly/friendtolover

Just to give you full disclosure, if you like that link and buy from it, it's an affilate link and I get paid a tiny %. But I don't want you to think I just gave that to you for this reason. It really is a good book and I think you'd like it....may solve your problem pretty quickly.

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