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| Author: | Jolly Green [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 7:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What's up guys? Need some advice. |
So, this isn't much of a technical question or even asking for routines, but just general advice that you've found true with girls. I started working at wal-mart week and a day ago today, and I went into orientation and just plopped myself down beside this really, way-out-of-my-league girl without really thinking about it. To scale her, I'd say an HB 7.5 - 8 depending on the day. Either way, she's out of my league for sure, but for some reason, she's REALLY into me. I haven't run any routines, I just kinda had the assumption she wasn't into me at first so I didn't give anything up. I didn't flirt, I didn't even look at her unless she tried to get my attention. I guess I was kinda "cocky funny" since I negged her about a million times without really trying, and I guess she's into it because the entire day of orientation and ever since we started working, she's throwing me huge obvious IOI's all the time. I don't give up anything to her, I don't say Hi to her, I don't look at her very much, but we have caught eye contact a few times. She's always trying to find out when we work together and when we don't she acts mad or sad or w/e. She's asked me to call her a billion times and I've essentially just ignored her, but today I gave in and texted her. Again, I'm not running game at all on her, the ways I'm acting are kind of just happening, I'm too lazy and don't like talking on the phone, so I ignore her, and I'm arrogant, so I neg and and self-glorify in a funny way a lot. Anyways, I haven't given it up to her yet but, I am really, really into this girl, and not just on a bone-her level. She's STILL dropping IOI's, I was txting with her and mentioned in passing how awesome I am and her response was "and yeah you are awesome" in part of her reply text. I know she's into me, but I don't know how soon or how much to give up. Anyways, the advice I need is, do you think it's about time I give something up? Like she's out tanning, and I wanna reel her into a compliment by saying something like "do you really think you need to tan?" and when she replies "yeah why" or w/e, I drop "cuz you look good already"? A part of me is saying that I'm being redundant and over thinking it (3 second rule broken about half an hour ago), but even still, I haven't gotten any advice up to this point so I think it's time. Also, me not replying for long periods of time is something she's used to, so this pause before an answer isn't weird yet. |
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| Author: | attractor [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 7:23 pm ] |
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Don't IOI her on her looks. Just ask her stuff and when you find a commonality you IOI her on that. E.g. 'I love the book 'La fleurs du mal' ' and you say 'Really? Me too... (with a huge smile on your face, with a condescending voice) Didn't took for the type of girl who'd waste time with anything else then her looks' something like that. |
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| Author: | Jolly Green [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 2:48 am ] |
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Well, after telling me I'm awesome, I somehow managed to fuck up the convo. I stayed in too long and AFC'd it up. I said some things that let her grab control of the convo and kinda tried too hard to respond and ended up being the one trying to get her to respond (which I recognize). I layed out a few lines to get her interested but she's freezing me out so I'm thinking my best course of action is to freeze her back out for a while. What do you guys think? I know she's ignoring me because she ALWAYS has her phone on her and she gets txt messages practically before i flip my phone shut, and also, how do I freeze her out when I work with her in the same department and we cross paths several times daily? |
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