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| Author: | The_Sarge [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 11:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My Mindset is changeing advice needed |
I have been Sarging for a couple of months now and every week me and my wingmen seem to be getting more and more into the game, we also get pictures every week as social proof for everyone to see. I have a few guys I go sarging with every week and I have noticed that we are growing and are getting more and more confident and other people have noticed it too. I really want to grow into a pro PUA. My mindset is starting to change for example other friends who I hang out with who do not come Sarging with me and my wingmen; I have started to analysing everything aound me and am also analysing them and comming to a conclusion that certain friends who do not come out have no game and am wanting to expand my social circle with like minded players excluding them from my life. I try talking to my friends who dont go sarging and tell them about the stories of how many HB's we pic up and they dont seem to understand and they become hostile towards me saying that me and my wingmen are in essence lying to women, this does not affect what they say about me and my crew as my mind set is strong. Does this happen to everyone? Looking for advice and feedback on this situation Thanks, Sarge |
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| Author: | PureStrategy [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 11:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Maybe don't sarge all the time |
I find that when I'm with my wing, and also my other friends in town, then I end up ditching some of my other friends in order to chat to some girls. Actually, even when I'm not with my wing, I end up chatting to girls as well. I find that PUAing is what's on my mind most of the time, so that's what I generally end up talking about. It's only because I am close to my friends, that I talk about it with them. I guess you just have to try to balance your time between your friends and your sarging, and maybe introduce some of the girls to your friends? I hope it all goes well |
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| Author: | frankcat [ Tue Dec 01, 2009 3:41 am ] |
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It is pretty crazy when your thinking starts to evolve, and it can really stir things up when you start to become more successful with women than all your friends (at least it was this way for me). Because their probably to scared to try pick-up and they want to believe that it dosn't work so they don't have to do it. It happened to me when I started to become really successful with women, I think eventually you may have to just be friends with other guys who are really successful with woman because to them your just another guy who's good with girls not someone who's going to make them feel like they should be doing more with their life (In addition always being around guys who are good with girls will probably make your game better by osmosis, it did for me) . I mean I like being successful with woman and I'm good at it but I have a friend who has put together a really successful internet business and hes always on me telling me I should start one and that I could be really successful like him (and I know he means well, but I try to avoid him because I just want to hang out with girls and enjoy life, even though I could probably be financially successful like him I just plain don't want to put in the work right now and I don't want someone always reminding me of what I'm not doing with my life) . Even if you have to get new friends so what, for me the most exciting part about pick-up is that even though I like having good friends around I don't need them, I can go out all by myself and meet the most attractive girls on any day or night of the week I choose. |
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