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Author:  ThomasX [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  How often are you supposed to communicate?

I've basically been "with" a girl for a few weeks now. We talk on the phone like 3-4 times a day but usually no longer than 15-30 min each.

I love talking to her and am really falling for her. But how much is too much? What is the healthy amount of communication a day?

We can't currently see eachother because she's been in new zealand for a little while now due to some family issues over there. So all we can do is talk on the phone. She doesn't have texting either.

How much is too much? I never know if I'm suffocating someone

Author:  Bormad [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 11:47 pm ]
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You can always test by letting her initiating the phone calls if you feel like you are the one who is always starting the conversation.

Author:  SmoothRider [ Fri Nov 27, 2009 1:59 pm ]
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Way to go Thomas!

Seriously, it's not a bad thing to talk on the phone, one of the things women look for in a man, and trust me, they have a hard time finding it, is a man who can actually have a real conversation with them.

So the fact that you talk on the phone a lot is a good sign. Now I don't know everything about this situation but if she is coming back from NZ, and you do want to see her when she does. I say keep in touch with her as well as you can.

Note: Just keep in mind that if YOU think you are overdoing it, you probably are.

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Nov 28, 2009 6:28 pm ]
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Just make sure you call her LESS often than she calls you. Also don't return calls immediately, wait a bit. No need to be a total dick about it, but keeping her wondering, working for your attention, and thinking you're busy are all good things.

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