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Author:  kerrgowg [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Really need help with this girl in school! I messed up....
So there is this girl at school and im really sure that she likes me.. One day her girlfriends called on me and said that she wanted my phone number.. I got a bit nervous and acted as i didnt hear them and continued going with my friends.. And every time i walk by her or when i see her she always checks me out for long and i check her out as well.. So a couple of days ago i saw her on the busstop and i was noticing she was looking at me very much so i go and say:

Me: Excuse me whats your name?
She: says her name
Me: Can i get your phone number?
She: No
Me: okay

and i leave.. she sounded very nervous and she was blushing...now i know messed up big time.. this was my first time approaching a girl that i dont know.. But my question is can i recover from this? And how do i do so? She is a veeeeeeeeery cute girl and i'd really like her as my girlfriend. Help me out guys.. please
Author:  l oasis l [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Really need help with this girl in school! I messed up..
Quote:
Me: Excuse me whats your name?
She: says her name
Me: Can i get your phone number?
She: No
Me: okay
sorry to say this, but thats fucking terrible. have you not read a word of literature in the field of pickup?

before you ask for a phone number, you need attraction > comfort > and plan on meeting another time with her, thus having a reason to ask for her phone number.

dude, seriously, read something before asking a question like that.
here is a great place to start: http://www.mpua.info
theres a sidebar with links on the left, read everything from the first link thru to the last, and then if you still have the same question, come back and ask it.
Author:  kerrgowg [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:53 pm ]
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I have read.. But it was my first approach ever.. so i was quite nervous, as i look back on it i can find a million things i could've said to get a conversation going.. So you would say i cant recover from this?
Author:  kerrgowg [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 6:39 pm ]
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Help me out guys.. need a recover for this one.. What about just going forward to her and telling her it was my bad asking for her number so quickly and just asking to start it over?
Im desperate for your help guys
Author:  parsleyofdoom [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 7:47 pm ]
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Help me out guys.. need a recover for this one.. What about just going forward to her and telling her it was my bad asking for her number so quickly and just asking to start it over?
Im desperate for your help guys
It seems to me the problem is more in your head. You have to be in the mindset that you dont need women to live. Once you realize this more and more will be coming your way.

In the movie Hitch he has a great line
Quote:
Any woman can be sweeped off her feet, any time, any where, and any place, all you need is the right broom.
Make small talk with her be intresting and the rest will just fall into place.
Author:  LA Boy [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 10:04 pm ]
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when u see her againt try to talk to her, and dont play any games be polite an nice. u said that she was blushing..so u can tell that shes a very shy...and than i think there will no be any problems about hers phone number..
good luck
Author:  kerrgowg [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 5:25 pm ]
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should i apologies for me asking for her number so quickly or just act as if it never happened when i approach her??
Author:  Bormad [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 5:30 pm ]
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Dont apoligise for anything :)
Author:  kerrgowg [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 5:42 pm ]
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so i should just act as if it never happened? cuz she looked kinda creeped out when i approached her
Author:  attractor [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 8:13 pm ]
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I advise you to completely forget about her, do mystery's newbie drill (go out for 4 nights a week, 4 hours per night, opening 3 sets per hour during one or two months); and then re-approach. You'll see the difference.
Author:  cheiftain [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 9:06 pm ]
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dont apologize talk to her and be nice
def dont neg (very light teasing maybe but be careful) if she's shy negging wil just make her uncomfortable
just be nice and smile, be positive and dont ask for number till you think she feels comfortable with you

best of luck
Author:  LA Boy [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 11:33 pm ]
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and if someday she want your number again, dont give her, act like u r not interested i say: u had your chance. then she will go crazy about you.
Author:  tomlove [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 5:18 pm ]
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yeh just get the chance to talk. be like hey. hows it going? be nice, shes shy. make her laugh then leave. if she still looks at you and is more comfotable when you next see her ask to hang out sometime.
Author:  kasabi [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 6:04 pm ]
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yeh just get the chance to talk. be like hey. hows it going? be nice, shes shy. make her laugh then leave. if she still looks at you and is more comfotable when you next see her ask to hang out sometime.
^This is good. Although . . . I'd say that it's better to prepare some "fun event" in your head and offer that instead of "hanging out".

To the rest, what's the point in over complicating this incredibly simple situation?
Author:  flybeta [ Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:15 pm ]
Post subject:  sounds like what my friend does
Don't worry I see my friend do that all the time basically he goes your cute can i get your number never works and is always creepy.

Girl did that to me before in high school her friend came up and told me she liked me I blew her off barely looked her way. Felt so bad next day but I was soo nervouss..
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