Hello
I am new here, my name is Alberto and I am from Mexico but I am living in Texas.
My exgf and I had a 3yrs relationship and last January we broke up (she broke up with me, because, in her words, "I suffocated her" ).
I freezeout-ed (is that correct? sorry English is not my main language
) and several friends of her, saw me with different girls many times in a month. After a few months (probably by March or April) she started to talk with me again, she started the communication. Now we are friends again, we usually talk two or three times a week. However she clearly is not interested in get back with me, and that's ok I accept that, but my sister's wedding is next month (Dec 19) and I want her to go with me to the wedding.
My question is:
How should I invite her?
Some background:
-She is single.
-She is shy.
-She knows my whole family, but I know that she is going to feel uncomfortable being there.
-She doesn't like to dance and her first excuse would probably be "Why do you want me to go with you if I don't dance?"
-She does not wants anything with me but friendship.
-She lives out of town and by that time, she will be on vacation here, but she is very attached with her little sister and she will want to be with her all the time.
-I want her back, I love her, she is the most important thing to me, but she is not everything to me.
Should I invite her first to another place? She really loves tacos and 'antojitos' (Mexican food) and go to eat tacos is not the most romantic thing in the world, but it is something that she loves! Should I have to invite her to do things that she loves to do? or do I have to invite her to a fancy restaurant or go to the movies? What do you recommend?
If I invite her to another place? How should I behave with her?
Do you recommend any pattern? embedded commands or something like that?
I will appreciate a lot your help,
Alberto.
P.S. If I misspelled a word or make a mistake writing in English, please correct me I am still learning
BTW, I am 21 yo and she is 20