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Author:  alexpg [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Coming on too strong?
Hey guys, I'm looking for advice on this girl I met Friday night. I met her at a bar and went back to her place, made out for a while, then she passed out from being pretty drunk. However, we hooked up in the morning and talked for a while. I called her Sunday night and we agreed to hang out some time this week. She then texted me last night while I was hanging out with some friends and asked if I was busy tonight or tomorrow. I wound up calling her back about 45 minutes later and leaving a message basically saying that tomorrow night would work for me. That was a little after 8 and she never returned my call.

My phone was having some issues that night so it's possible that she called back and just didn't get through, but I'm still not sure what my next step should be. Should I text her today and ask if she still wants to hang out or should I assume that I came on too strong by calling back after a text and wait a little while to get in touch with her again? Thanks in advance for any help you can give me.
Author:  ^Flash^ [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 5:19 pm ]
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Oh Young Jedi.

Listen rudeboy, you need to 'not care' basically, who gives a fucking shit if she calls you back? its 1 girl dude, you need to open up more oppertunities and lose the fact that you are focusing on her. if youve already 'made out' (i love american terminology.. JERK OFF!) then you have already established a connection with her and left something memorable with her.

Do not start thinking omfg there is something wrong with my phone blabla, even if there was then you just need to leave the phone. Dont start looking at your phone thinking when is she going to call. You get on with your shit, and just focus on the fact that you know she is going to make contact with you. She will.

Word the fuck up homeboy.

Flash
Author:  alexpg [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 6:27 pm ]
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hahahaha I like your style man. I guess I sounded really pathetic in that first post, but I'm basically just asking, "how am I going to get this girl over to my place tonight or tomorrow night?" I'm hardly stressing out about it, I was just wondering if people had suggestions on whether I should follow up with this girl or just leave it be and let her make the next move.

I also find it bizarre, and this has happened a few times, that girls will sometimes go out of their way to show interest in me by text but then when I respond, they don't get back to me. Why would this girl text and ask when I'm free and then not respond after I answer her question? I'm not sure if it is something wrong with my response or if this is just something girls frequently do.
Author:  SiNfUl [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 10:46 pm ]
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If she doesn't call back, let it be, try again in a couple of days. It's no big deal if she gets back to you or not right?

If you want to get a girl back to your place (on any given night), you have to work on getting her IL up. If her IL (Interest Level) and attraction is high, you could probably bang her at a stop light on the 'way' to your house. 8)

If there is a pattern when it comes to girls getting flaky on you after showing interest, your approach could be off. Are you turning into wussy, needy boy after she gets your attention? Something to think about...
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